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writes:Last month i had sex with my boyfriend. It was for the first time for me, but he already told me that he is a experienced person. I am in relationship with him for the last 3 years. Now i have moved to a city which is at 15h distance to his city. Finally he told me that he has feelings for me and both of us aggred for sex. After parting away he called me and we talked about our sex. He remembered each and every act we did. Every position, number of times we did sex in 3 days, and said that he liked watching me during sex. Now please as i have no prior experience, please tell me weather he did sex with me out of love or it was just a sexual act. Reply to this Question
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reader, madasshell1  +, writes (29 December 2010):
I have found myself asking that same question with my lover. He recaps our sexual escapades quite often and tells me often hows he hooked and how I am the best he has ever had. But I think, guys just tell women that so they can get another round. But truthfully, Guys are just sexual creatures, they need sex (it has been scientifically proven), So the fact that you satisfy him sexually is never a bad thing, they just view it as one of their needs being met. That in the absence of what you desire, like love, cuddling, quality time spent together, and conversations about other aspects of life would raise a concern for maybe he is just in it for the sex. I feel a couple should have a healthy sexual relationship as well as other aspects of the relationship, to make for a well rounded relatioship, so dont fret, just try to enjoy it as much as he does:)
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reader, Odds +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Can't it be both?If he's remembering all those details, either he cares about you, or you're earth-shatteringly mind-blowing in bed. Given your lack of experience, it's probably the former. If he hadn't cared at all, he would have remembered screwing and passing out.None of that rules out the physical aspect. Again, it can be both, and probably is.
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