I don't think he's interested in me. Should I call off the date?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a little under two months. The first couple dates we went on we made out and it was super hot. He suggested we wait a couple weeks to have sex... i told him we should wait 3 months. He reluctantly agreed. Since ...
A. 6 April 2011: Thanks for the answers! I planned the date friday bcuz ive had tickets for months!. I think im just going to talk to him to see if hes still interested in me. I dont care if i come off as needy.. I dont need to be wasting my time. If he still wants ... (read in full...)
Should I give him the card I wrote telling him how I feel?
Q. Hello, there is this guy who has told that he has feelings for me in the past. the problem is that we don't talk to each other very often because it is kind of complicated. we don't talk to each other on a regular basis and we don't go out on dates ...
A. 6 April 2011: There isn't enough honesty in the world and, personally, I think it's refreshing. Think worst case scenario... what's the worst that could happen!? I don't know if a card is the best way to go. Maybe just give him a call or invite him for coffee ... (read in full...)
How can such a terrible person be doing okay while I'm so unhappy and insecure?
Q. My mind is in a fog. I've written on this site countless times hoping for different answers. Hoping one of which might somehow help me. Hoping that someone has been where I've been and can give me hope and help me to better understand what my issue ...
A. 26 February 2011: I have to point this out before I let this one go. Keep in mind that, at this point in your situation, it's important to notice that the ideas that you have to fix your situation have not been working. No matter how many more times you use the same ... (read in full...)
How can such a terrible person be doing okay while I'm so unhappy and insecure?
Q. My mind is in a fog. I've written on this site countless times hoping for different answers. Hoping one of which might somehow help me. Hoping that someone has been where I've been and can give me hope and help me to better understand what my issue ...
A. 25 February 2011: I have to agree.. you def need to talk this out with a professional. If you don't have insurance (which seems pretty common these days) start detaching yourself from her by not looking at any part of her life on facebook/myspace/any other website, ... (read in full...)
My significant other has crawled into his man cave and wont come out!
Q. My SO he has retreated into what my sis called his "man cave" where he needs to think things through by himself and I should just leave him alone for the time being. He said it's not about us completely but he feels as if his life is about making ...
A. 25 February 2011: He seems depressed which is worrisome. He is wallowing in self pity... a great remedy to self pity is making a list of things in your life that you're grateful for. (i.e. in his case: you, a roof over his head, food on the table, the opportunity to ... (read in full...)
Work/sports buds or more???
Q. I've had a huge crush on this guy I work with for months. He sometimes says really cute things to me and compliments me (but I don't know if he says this to all girls or just me) and he is so attractive.. I get sooo nervous when I'm around him.. I ...
A. 22 February 2011: Aunty Honesty... you are good!!! LOL.. he did end up asking me out the same day! Thanks for walking me through this... I'm so clueless when it comes to this stuff! We're going to the movies Friday.. I'm excited!!! 3... (read in full...)
She won't open up to me about how she feels about our problems
Q. Me and my girlfriend been dating for about 9 months and the only problem is that when something happens between us she just does not want to talk about it. Even if its something very silly she gets angry easily and says its a fight and for me to ...
A. 21 February 2011: My boyfriends have complained about that in the past. I think you need to keep talking to her about it. Find out exactly why she is uncomfortable talking about what's bugging her. On that same note, before you talk to her about something, make ... (read in full...)
I don't want this guilt to be hanging over my head. How do I get rid of it?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and I am very much in love with her. She took a job in a different state 5 months ago but we both still wanted to stay together. Last night, at a local bar after having way too much to drink, I ...
A. 21 February 2011: Sorry Tony but it's not his g/f fault for moving away. I think you would agree with me anonymous. You are clearly in a mature, adult relationship. You understand why she had to leave and you two are working it out between yourselves and that's ... (read in full...)
He's not ready for a relationship but he's sending mixed signals!
Q. The question is: "Does It Sound Serious?" I've written to you before and asked for advice on if I should stick it out and wait. You and one other told me to wait. Another told me to dump him. I've decided to wait and so far I'm glad I did. My guy ...
A. 21 February 2011: If he's not paying rent, don't let him take up any space in your heart or your head. It's better to be single than with a guy who puts you second. Seriously, what's the hold up?? I know... maybe he doesn't want a relationship since he's getting ... (read in full...)
How to contact a girl I like?
Q. Hey, I'm in college and so is the girl I'm writing about. I met her at college but then left after around 3 months just as we were getting close to eachother. I went back to the college recently to see friends and bumped into her and it was so nice ...
A. 21 February 2011: Yes, inbox message her so it's more personal. Say "Hey.. I was stoked to see you when I was in town last week. Want to bump into each other again? What's your number?" Say that in your own words of course! If she's interested she'll give you her ... (read in full...)
Want to be friends with my ex, on my terms
Q. Heyyy theres this guy i used to have a thing with until i found out he was using me so i had a massive arguement with him ! He has stopped talking to me now but we have the same friendship group and would like it if we could be friends even if ...
A. 21 February 2011: My best advice is for you to just get over him as soon as possible.. The opposite of love is indifference so don't hate him but don't show him any signs that you like him. Just know that any feelings you have for him will pass, especially when you ... (read in full...)
I lie to my friends about girlfriends. I've never even had my first kiss!
Q. Hi er I'm 14 years old and living in Portsmouth ATM I have never had my first kiss and I lie about it to mates to not be embarrassed. How can I change this and build my confidence? I need ideas on who in general and how should I tell them? Thanks ...
A. 21 February 2011: Never lie about yourself to anyone in anyway about anything. You are who you are.. EMBRACE it. Everyone experiences life at a different pace and confident people know and accept that and embrace whatever experience happens to be in front of them. ... (read in full...)
Work/sports buds or more???
Q. I've had a huge crush on this guy I work with for months. He sometimes says really cute things to me and compliments me (but I don't know if he says this to all girls or just me) and he is so attractive.. I get sooo nervous when I'm around him.. I ...
A. 21 February 2011: Thank you Aunt Honesty for your feedback!! I took your advice but I think I kinda botched it! LOL! We played vball today and afterward we went our separate ways and as I got into my car I felt stupid for not just asking him to come eat with me ... (read in full...)
We don't see each other much and it worries me!
Q. Hi i am 16 yers old my gf is 18yers, i go whith here in the same class but( i have a problem i am russian and she is chinese)on on sanday and saturday she is going to work every time and somtimes friday night. i dont have free time to spend with ...
A. 19 February 2011: I definitely think you should sit down with her to talk about this. If it bothers her as much it bothers you, stay with her.. work it out... find time to be together. If she doesn't care about your space and time apart than let her go. It will ... (read in full...)
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