"I really like this boy and time is running out"
Q. Okay so here's the problem. I really like this guy. Same old, same old. I'm very, very shy around guy's and have had a few bad experiences. My friend says that he's no good for me. also he likes another girl. this is a well known fact. I personally ...
A. 27 May 2010: Man have I been in this position! I think I am THE shyest person in existence - sometimes I get too afraid to put my hand up in class, so when I wanted to talk to my crush, things didn't look too great.
What I've found helps is a mutual friend or j... (read in full...)
She's rejected others. What chance do I have?
Q. I'm a senior, this girl i am just smitten with has some history with me, we never dated but i was close. In the end i fell short, because i couldn't overcome fear of rejection. I've regained confidence and a year later i feel like i can do this. I ...
A. 27 May 2010: I second what CaringGuy said.
As a girl, I know that a girl looks for more in a guy than looks. As you know her more than I do, think it over. Her dating history - what sort of guys does she date? Break up with the fastest?
Just take a l... (read in full...)
Is something going on with his potential coworker?
Q. So my boyfriend gave me his Facebook password couple of months ago. We're in a long-distance relationship at the moment, and we message each other a lot on Facebook. He is planning to move here in 2 months, and I'm flying down in June to spend time ...
A. 27 May 2010: As people have said before, you invaded his privacy and betrayed his trust. It's going to sound harsh, but stop snooping and don't go on. And if you trust him, stop suspecting him. They could JUST BE FRIENDS. :)... (read in full...)
How can I heal my broken heart?
Q. This is a long story so I apologize in advance… My heart is broken and I cannot stop crying. My boyfriend of four years, broke up with me out of the blue on Sunday. Things were going good between us and then all of sudden he was upset with me and w...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey there :) We've probably all been there and we know it's not easy. Don't feel to bad about it. Everyone feels like crap for a while. The first thing to realise, though everyone says it, is that IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT! You sound like a caring p... (read in full...)
Is it time to move on from her?
Q. I have a long list of questions under my profile about my current gf. We met last year - she was my tour guide. We had a great LDR and I came to China for her to teach English. Everything was great for the first couple of months then she started to ...
A. 27 May 2010: You've pretty much answered your question yourself - 'I'm too exhausted to keep up the dramas'.
While you and this girl got along great at first, clearly you couldn't trust her and she is not the right person for you. You should definitely move on -... (read in full...)
Did I have the right to tell her she makes me uncomfortable?
Q. This is the back story- My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. He is the most trustworthy person and I know that he would never cheat on me. I am 110% sure of it. My boyfriend and I, and another 3 people are all really close ...
A. 27 May 2010: You were definitely not at fault to tell her, if you didn't she never would know!
I don't think she should have acted out in such a way, and you should probably explain to your bf, if you haven't already, exactly what went down and what made you ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend
Q. I just have a horrible feeling now, I'm dating with my boyfriend for a year and after Ive graduated, he helped to get a job and that's the beginning of this messy problem for me,...He called his friend just to help me to get a job in the same ...
A. 27 May 2010: It's tough, but you have to think about how long you've known each of them - as you say, your boyfriend has been there with you for over a year and helped you so much, whereas you have just met this friend.
If you are sure that it is the friend you ... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I can't have??
Q. I desperately need advice because I am feel I am about to just completely fall apart or do something stupid. I have a female best friend, we do everything together, we have the same interests, and we both mean the world to each other. I have been ...
A. 26 May 2010: Ouch. I'm this situation atm.
You can think of their flaws, but I too have found it doesn't work. Perhaps you can try to convince your mutual friends to talk to her and see how she feels.
I'm sorry, I don't really know. Hope it works out. :)
An... (read in full...)
I'm worried by his behaviour, am I just over-reacting?
Q. my ex and i have been talking for a few months...he needs time to get his head together before getting back into things with me. Noone did anything bad, I think he just needs time...not ready to be in a relationship again. The times we talk it seems ...
A. 31 March 2010: You should ask him why he couldn't answer. Maybe he was just out with friends, or catching a movie? Don't jump to conclusions, try to get the facts straight first. :)... (read in full...)
She said she would stop talking to him late at night, but now I have found that she is still taking his calls at 3am! How should I take this?
Q. Okay here I go again... This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back togethe...
A. 31 March 2010: She may be being honest when she says they're friends, but she's not trying to value your feelings. Time will tell, but I would try to move on. She may not be trustworthy.... (read in full...)
Am I doing anything wrong by chatting to my female penpal?
Q. I have signed up to a penpal site and have started talking to a girl. Should I feel bad or guilty as I have a girlfriend – I’m not flirting merely chatting and she knws i’m taken but I don’t think my gf would be to pleased if she knew. Am i doing ...
A. 31 March 2010: As long as you keep it friendly, it should be fine. :)
You might want to tell your gf though, just to avoid future shocks or something.... (read in full...)
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