Should you be worried if your partner says they don't know why they love you?
Q. So I hear recently from a radio advice guru on love that it is always important to ask your partner WHY he or she loves you. If they can't tell you...then it's a cause for concern. The reason he said that is that often infatuation is mistaken for ...
A. 6 May 2013: Saw a quote on facebook the other day and thought you would appreciate it for this situation; "What I personally think is that if you love someone because of his eyes, lips or face, it’s not love — it’s lust. If it is because she cries every time ... (read in full...)
Feel lost and confused. Was I in the wrong to address the issue? I miss him
Q. I’d like some advice please. 5 months ago, I met this amazing guy and we hit if. Purely for the reason we had a lot in common. He explained to me he came out of a very messy relationship that lasted for 5 years, was not ready for a relationship. I...
A. 5 May 2013: you were absolutely NOT WRONG for bring up the issue. It really bothered you and so you did the right, mature, thing to bring it up to him and calmly and logically explained your feelings. Give him some time, although I would be livid if he hadn't ... (read in full...)
I dumped the good guy for the bad guy, now I want the good guy back!
Q. Hello, what am writing about is, I was seeing some one about a year ago, he was a prince charming kinda guy, treated me great, about 3 months, my ex was in jail, the one who phy. abuse me, beat me, choke me, just a bad guy, but I was in love with ...
A. 5 May 2013: i think you should stop being so selfish and try meeting someone totally new. who knows if the good guy will want you back, talk to him and ask him. if he says no, know that he owes you nothing and you should move on. you already deserted him once, ... (read in full...)
We can't get married so what happens if he leaves us?
Q. I have a relationship with my cousin olmost 8years we have own baby son 6 years old his healthy.... my question what if he found another and leave us alone.we cant be merried? ...
A. 5 May 2013: ....why can't you be married? you already had a baby with him, what's the difference now?... (read in full...)
Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.
Q. i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl,...
A. 27 April 2013: You misunderstood what I said. I never meant that contemplating cheating is somewhat excusable because then at least the partner can be free. I just meant if someone makes the mistake to cheat, pre-meditated or not, i think it's fair for the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I don't want him talking to his friend's ex?
Q. Hi all. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He has been talking to his friends ex girlfriend lately. Not to sound mean but I honestly don't like this girl much because she's just one of those girls who is always starting drama and trouble and ...
A. 27 April 2013: I think talking to him and logically stating your points like you've done so nicely here, would be a great idea!! Try not to come off as if you're giving him an ultimatum or that you are demanding it, and explain it has nothing to do with trust. She ... (read in full...)
Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.
Q. i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl,...
A. 26 April 2013: SVC, in the 2nd scenario, the bf didn't leave. He was dumped and then found out by chance that his ex was not as innocent as she put on. Also, not all partners who are told about cheating leave. That being said, the bf from the 1st scene didn't ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me? Did he get mad at me for not sleeping with him?
Q. There is this guy in my class who I had never spoken to until last Friday (I am very quiet in class). Last Friday, I somehow ended up talking to him and we went to eat after school. At night, I ended up at a small party with my friends and he w...
A. 26 April 2013: My opinion, he was hoping that the line about "I'll remember that date so I can tell my kids blahaha," & the seductive massage would have led to more. When it didn't, his bruised ego made it seem like he was never interested. You don't go from ... (read in full...)
Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.
Q. i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl,...
A. 26 April 2013: thanks a lot for all the answers! some of are exactly on the same wavelength I am, i could have written the responses my self. that being said, i disagree that cheating is cheating. obviously, neither of these women are going to get the best gf of ... (read in full...)
Does my ex boyfriend really love me, when he has a girlfriend?
Q. Does he really love me? I dated this one guy for about 6 months and then, like most relationships, if came to an end. We never really spoke after we broke up, I mean sometimes we did talk. But if I ever needed help he would always be there for me. ...
A. 25 April 2013: i feel bad for you. doesn't this make you wonder if while you guys were together, he was telling other girls that he loved them too. you can't trust him. it depends on the reason you guys broke up too. ... (read in full...)
Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.
Q. i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl,...
A. 24 April 2013: i'm asking for arguments sake. i personally think it's different as one person was upfront with their partner so their partner could move on with their life and try and find someone else. the other one just kept it so the other partner didn't even ... (read in full...)
I went out dancing with my new girl and her sisters.
Q. I went out dancing with my girlfriend and her sisters. She and I are just starting to date. Another girl come up and ask me to dance I said no out of respect but my girlfriend, half drunk said to go ahead. Does this mean that she does not care ...
A. 24 April 2013: lol no darling, it just means that she trusts you. this other girl didn't ask you to have sex with her, she asked for a dance. she knows you won't do anything inappropriate. she's OK with you dancing with other people although you may not be. she ... (read in full...)
He has a close, touchy female friend
Q. my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. we've been apart for almost two years and plan to see each other and live together soon this year.he studies and works abroad. he has a very close female friend who is his co-worker too. the ...
A. 24 April 2013: ummm are you EFFING KIDDING ME? first of all, let's pretend nothing is happening between ms. touchy and your bf. the fact that it's caused huge fights and you aren't comfortable with it, should be enough motivation for him to STOP the behavior. now, ... (read in full...)
I don't like being around the cheating g/f of my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. I'm in a really difficult situation here and need help. My boyfriend and his best friend have been friends forever and they are really close and are always together. My boyfriends best friend has been with his girlfriend for about 6 months n...
A. 24 April 2013: you have absolutely no reason to be around this girl. she is not good to you, she disrespected your bf when she took his phone and pretended to be him, and she obviously doesn't care about her own bf. she has no loyalty and from your description, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend makes me wash my hands after touching my penis because she's afraid of getting pregnant. Could it happen like that?
Q. hi all. i have a big question to ask. my girlfriend and i fool around, as in oral sex. she is afraid while im giving her pleasure with my finger that sometimes i have to readjust my erection and she makes me go wash my hands because she is afraid ...
A. 24 April 2013: your gf is definitely a smart girl and i give her MAD PROPS for sticking to her guns. how are you 26-29 years old and you don't know the answer to that question??? of course YOU CAN GET HER PREGNANT if you have cum on your finger and then insert ... (read in full...)
My crush has a g/f but says I'm pretty. How do I tell his g/f what he said?
Q. Ok so today I saw my ex near and he kept staring at me I said " what are you staring at me for " and he said " nothing ". I said something funny and stubid but I said " what you wishing you had all this again " and I like pointed to my self and ...
A. 24 April 2013: calm yourself, all he said was that you are pretty, not that he wanted to have sex with you off in a corner. if this is the way you act when someone gives you a little compliment, you need a lot more growing to do. it's OK to think someone other ... (read in full...)
We will be breaking up after the summer. Is it a good idea to keep dating now?
Q. Next year my boyfriend and I are going to uni, different unis but not that far apart. I told him that he meant a lot to me and I'd like to try to stay together at uni because I didn't want to lose him, but after a lot of time of him thinking about ...
A. 24 April 2013: yes, it is a horrible idea if you are hoping that he will change his mind. if you go into it knowing that there is a chance you guys will not be together, then so be it. but please don't give yourself false hope. your bf has been very, very clear. ... (read in full...)
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