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... Send *ookingatyou a private message | | | *ookingatyou's profile:Hey, I've been scouting about here and I hope that I can help you guys by giving you the benefit of my experience, and especially on the teacher crushes front!
I was in love with my teacher from the age of about 16-18 and then I ultimately went out with him and we had a 2 1/2 year relationship, so I understand where you are coming from with your teacher/tutor problems. Also on the other side of the coin, i had a friend who told her teacher how she felt and it got very messy and she ended up in a lot of trouble over it because he freaked out, so I can see it from both sides. I've also worked in schools and I can see it from the point of view of a member of staff too.
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After 10 years should I contact him and try to get closure?
Q. Bare with me this a long one. I met this man (DB) when I was 15, I am now 29. He was my teacher my sophomore year in high school. There was a ton of chemistry between us but we never acted on it besides lots of flirting, occasional hugs, and ...
A. 31 December 2009: hey, theres just too much to say here, esp for me! I've pretty much been in the same boat with a teacher. he is married now, and lied to me about it. What you feel is normal. I don't have time to reply but i know where you are coming from and i ... (read in full...)
When I leave school should I tell my teacher I'm in love with her?
Q. Now, im going to aplogise for poor spelling firstly (its late at night for me!!) and secondly I am sorry this is another teacher/student crappy topic!! Ok so lets set you the picture. I am over 18, and still stuck in sixth form (3rd year) I am ...
A. 13 November 2009: Gargh! i am the king of student teacher relationships... i did my 3 year stint with my teacher, i know exactly what you mean. i'm 28 now and looking back, i did love him, it wasnt just a crush, me and D had a very friendly relationship too before we ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin!!!
Q. Hi, I am 28 year old virgin, male, from the UK. I have never had any sexual experience with the opposite sex- no girlfriends or sexual relationships. Despite my age, I am a mature student, at University. Is there anything morally wrong with datin...
A. 16 December 2007: hey- youre 28- not 68! and i actually for a second, thought it was my friend writing this, so i understand your predicament. Well, i'm 25 and i love dating older guys, and had a 27 year old bf at 17, and a 28 year old bf at 20, so thats never ... (read in full...)
Me and my bf are both shy thus we haven't approached the sexual side of our relation. Will he think I am weird for being a virgin at 36?
Q. Hi Myself and my boyfriend of six weeks are finding it difficult to tell each other how we feel about each other as we are both shy and this has led to us not starting a sexual relationship yet, who should make the first move to have sex, and as...
A. 16 December 2007: my friend is a virgin at 29, and i know two other men who are virgins in their 30s so its not that uncommon. I really dont see it being a problem- its not been when my friends have told people theyre with, and see no reason why there would be, in ... (read in full...)
Worried I'll aim for the wrong entrance when I try and have sex... is it hard to find?
Q. hi im chris and i am a virgin. i have turned down many opportunities for sex bacause i am scared i will stay limp or not be able to find the correct entrance.. is there any easy way to find the right hole when your in intercourse? Chris...
A. 16 December 2007: It's a good question! If i'm going to be perfectly honest and somewhat explicit, it can still not "go in" so easily even when you're experienced, so i wouldnt worry about it too much. i don't know how much experience youve had with a girl, but ... (read in full...)
I am also in love with my teacher...
Q. Hello! I am in love with my teacher. I cannot help it. He is 10 years my senior, he is nice, funny, and attractive to me but not to most. He respects me as a person and he thinks I'm funny as well...sometimes he stares at me, then looks down and...
A. 14 December 2007: ive been there, done that with my teacher so i understand. he was ten years older than me and we had a 2 1/2 year relationship. my only advice would be- keep it real, keep it non sexual. Some other teachers knew at my school, but they were fine ... (read in full...)
Got a crush on my teacher. I am hoping if I tell him it will go away
Q. Hi, i need everyones opinion. Dont think of this as ohh its jsut another teacher problem, but actually just tell me an honest answere as i dont know if what im goin to do tomorrow will be a mistake. Okay so i am a senior at my high school and its g...
A. 14 December 2007: right... i've got a lot of experience in this area and i say DONT tell him.
it happened to my friend, she told her teacher he flipped out, told his principal- then my friend was quizzed by other teachers and got suspended. he became paranoid... (read in full...)
My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?
Q. omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really ...
A. 14 December 2007: This is absolutely disgraceful, your poor friend. i think you should tell somebody right away- youre obviously a good friend who cares to come on here, do the right thing- shell thank you for it later. x... (read in full...)
Does this shy guy like me?
Q. My crush knows I like him or that atleast I did at one point anyway. Sometimes he acts like I'm not there and other times he's like every where that I go.The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he...
A. 14 December 2007: No i dont think you're being stalkerish at all, i think he likes you enough to find and add you on myspace, so thats a big sign. if he was thinking " oh god, not her again!" hed hardly have added you.
Maybe hes a bit nervous, i know if my crush ad... (read in full...)
How to contact this girl via MySpace or this mutual friend without seeming stalker-ish?
Q. This past June I left for Basic Training and Infantry school for the Army National Guard. Three days, yes three, before shipping out, I saw the most gorgeous girl at my college. Normally I am extremely shy around girls, but with me leaving in 3 ...
A. 14 December 2007: I'm in the same position- ive found the guy's myspace i fancy, and i think that rockelle is right- theres nothing weird about an add request. in a way, its better than face to face because she can check you out and decide, and see that youve got ... (read in full...)
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