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... Send *olaCherryCola a private message | | | *olaCherryCola's profile:My name is Lola Cherry Cola. I am a college student at a small liberal arts college in Ohio, double majoring in English and Communication and minoring in East Asian Studies and Women's Studies. I identify as a bisexual woman, and as a survivor of domestic violence. My parents were pretty hands off, but I was fortunate to be raised primarily by my great aunt and uncle. They are the best people in the world. I am specializing in gender and sexuality studies, focusing particularly on linguistics, lesbianism, and bisexual erasure. I also work for a domestic violence prevention and outreach program, as well as for my university. Relationship-wise, I'm currently tangled up with my lesbian roommate while attempting to seduce a male coworker of mine with a questionable sexuality. |
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Lately I haven't felt connected to anyone or anything
Q. I am a 24 year old woman living in my state capital working as an AmeriCorps*VISTA. I have no health insurance, no money, and no close family except an aging set of grandparents who live in my hometown, about an hour away. In October (3 months ago), ...
A. 15 January 2014: I just think I realized that nothing actually matters. All of human existence, celebration and suffering is really inconsequential. I don't care about advancing in my career, finding work that is more fulfilling, helping others, loving or being ... (read in full...)
Lately I haven't felt connected to anyone or anything
Q. I am a 24 year old woman living in my state capital working as an AmeriCorps*VISTA. I have no health insurance, no money, and no close family except an aging set of grandparents who live in my hometown, about an hour away. In October (3 months ago), ...
A. 13 January 2014: Thank you for your kind post. I should have also mentioned that I work at a desk job that is incredibly boring and unfulfilling. I've previously worked as an AmeriCorps State volunteer with homeless youth, which was a more difficult job but also ... (read in full...)
Lately I haven't felt connected to anyone or anything
Q. I am a 24 year old woman living in my state capital working as an AmeriCorps*VISTA. I have no health insurance, no money, and no close family except an aging set of grandparents who live in my hometown, about an hour away. In October (3 months ago), ...
A. 13 January 2014: Thank you for your kind post. I should have also mentioned that I work at a desk job that is incredibly boring and unfulfilling. I've previously worked as an AmeriCorps State volunteer with homeless youth, which was a more difficult job but also ... (read in full...)
Did I break my own hymen???
Q. HI :) I had a slightly embarrassing question. Ive been sexually active for nearly a year now. Recently while pleasuring myself (mb) so to speak I began to notice that I started bleeding. This concerned me because I had finished my time of the month ...
A. 15 October 2010: Feeling like a guy going to far during sex is all in your head, not in your hymen. If it hurts physically, it may be because there are remnants of your hymen still at your vaginal (I still have this problem, and I've had lots of sex, good and bad), ... (read in full...)
Anal sex straight into my mouth--will I get sick?
Q. So embarressing but I have to know... My boyfriend and I were drunk and had anal and in the heat of the moment I sucked his dick straight out of my bum. I don't want to get sick. Should I take any medication or precautions? Don't worry, I don't pl...
A. 29 June 2010: Maybe next time use a condom for the anal and peel it off for the oral? If the condom is lubricated on the inside, it may not taste so great, but it's better than e. coli. Just a helpful suggestion from a fellow butt buddy.... (read in full...)
Did I break my own hymen???
Q. HI :) I had a slightly embarrassing question. Ive been sexually active for nearly a year now. Recently while pleasuring myself (mb) so to speak I began to notice that I started bleeding. This concerned me because I had finished my time of the month ...
A. 29 June 2010: Lots of pictures online and help you get an idea of what a hymen looks like. Get a mirror out and start exploring. Your hymen is basically the least essential part of your body -- I think it's right up there with your appendix. Don't worry about it. ... (read in full...)
I want to stop being his victim and start living without fear!
Q. I'm just so stressed out, my husband was a serial cheater who I refused to call quits with as he always lied he's way out of every dodgy situation. I left him when I was pregnant and things went from bad to worse, with him getting violent ...
A. 29 June 2010: I'm not sure where you live, but a quick Google search on "domestic violence" and your city and state should bring up some resources. I know of projectwomanohio.org and domesticviolence.org for Ohio and Michigan respectively, and ... (read in full...)
Caught between my parents, with my little sister. Need to find a way to improve my situation.
Q. Okay so this isn't your typical relationship question, has more to do with family, but i've always relied on you guys for help in the past so i can't think of a place i'd feel better asking this. So i absolutely hate my mom. Long story short, she...
A. 29 June 2010: You can try your best to keep in touch with your sister, but you're going to have to look out for yourself above anyone else.
Something that caught my eye is the "cherrywine pop" that your sister mentioned -- are you sure she's not referrin... (read in full...)
I figure after 5 years we should be on some sort of life path, and we're not...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, and lived together for 3. About 2 years ago, he moved to NC to go to school, then he quit school and came back to live with me in FL. We both decided that we would rather live in NC than FL, that was ...
A. 17 June 2010: Find someone who has an idea. You don't need to necessarily know exactly what you want out of life, but it's better to have some idea than none at all. Chances are, he's saying he doesn't know because he doesn't want to say "no" to you, whether... (read in full...)
If she really loves me, wouldn't she completely ditch her ex?
Q. hello! i just red an article here so i just decided to make my account, hoping i would have a much better judgment or opinions. The thing goes, I met a girl which is my classmate "MISS D" (college) at first we didn't speak to each other that ...
A. 17 June 2010: Have a little sympathy for the poor girl. She may really not know which one of you she loves. It's hard for anyone to let go of their first love. If this guy had parental approval and was her first real boyfriend, it would be especially difficul... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 17 June 2010: I work for a Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Prevention and Outreach Agency. Every day I work on prevention and outreach materials which list the causes, effects, and descriptions of Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault.
Everything you list... (read in full...)
Do I respect my girlfriend... Why do I think this way?
Q. [Mod Note: OP's own title] So my girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months. WE love each other. We've introduced each other to our families and we're talking long term relationship stuff. HOwever, I don't know if I r...
A. 17 June 2010: A woman exists for a man's pleasure as much as a man exists for a woman's pleasure. If you two are talking long-term, and you want to see her as a girlfriend, then you'd better start living up to being her boyfriend. Or, don't be surprised wh... (read in full...)
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