No matter how much I ignore him I cant get over him! Help!
Q. I'm still in love with my ex who dumped me 3 months ago. I have to see him every day, and I cannot seem to get over him. He turned his emotions off like a switch and just wanted to be friends. I said no, I needed time to not talk. And we havn't ...
A. 25 November 2011: As incredibly painful as I know this is, there no way for your broken heart to heal other than time. You're off to a great start though by avoiding him; someone who throws away your relationship in two seconds is hardly worth your attention. Moreo... (read in full...)
Should I try being someone I'm not to get his attention?
Q. I like him so much we have loads in common and get on i cant stop thinking bout him and its driving me mad But he basically doesnt like me he he says theres nothing wrong with me but does not have the spark he needs in a relationship ...
A. 9 May 2011: The thing is, even if you WERE to change, this guy wouldn't be in love with you, he'd be in love with someone else. And take this from a psychiatry student, it's not psychologically healthy to keep that up; you'll be miserable inside, even if you're ... (read in full...)
My family won't approve of my bf, who is of a different race than me. Should I continue hiding it from them?
Q. So iv been dating this guy for a while now , we are truly happy with each other but we not the same race !! To him and I race is definitely NOT a issue - His coloured and I'm white! My dad doesnt know that we seeing each other, the rest of my f...
A. 9 May 2011: I think it's fantastic you can overcome society's biases and wish you two the best. You said the rest of your family knows and they approve? If so, then I believe you should tell your father if you're planning a seriousl relationship with this ... (read in full...)
I'm a good person in everyones eyes except my mothers
Q. My relationship with my mother was never good and it is even getting worse as we both get older, despite my frequent attempts to improve our relationship from my side. I am very obedient. I always did what she wants me to do hoping this way she ...
A. 28 February 2011: Wow. This is pretty much the verbal summation of my relationship with my mother and her relationship with her mother before that. Chances are, your mother's relationship with her parents itself wasn't too good; as such, she herself is an inadequa... (read in full...)
Is it true that guys prefer non-virgins?
Q. Okay, so as me and my friend were walking she told me the reason why I don't get guys is cause I'm a virgin. She said if I lost my virginity then that would be better. Since she said a good percent of guys prefer non-virgins rather than virgins. ...
A. 13 October 2010: Alright, staraight out: that's a complete myth.
It also depends on what kind of guy you're looking for. Womanizers, for example, typically want a girl with experience because their looking for a good time with no strings attached. Men that act... (read in full...)
Why is it so easy for girls and so hard for guys?
Q. Me and my GF have been on a break since july 22, but on Monday oct 4th it finally became official. She went from going to the movies with a dude we'll call him "Douche" to now being in a relationship with this guy whom we'll call "Jackass". Why is ...
A. 13 October 2010: You're not considering one thing-- that this woman could purposely be doing this to make you jealous.
Any girl can get any guy she wants if she sweet talks him-- and vice versa. It all depends on whether you're looking for a meaningful relation... (read in full...)
Would sending a text be overstepping the boundaries?
Q. So I'm friends with this girl who puts all kinds of stress on herself with work and other things. Though I could never find the right way to ask for her number. Because of the amount she deals with between work and classes she often times doesn't ...
A. 2 October 2010: I think someone as sharp as her would certainly recall that she never gave you her number.
That being said, I think your gesture is incredably considerate, and I'm sure she'd value it. Do you have her email or facebook? Why not contact her thro... (read in full...)
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