Has anyone dealt with a passive aggressive man?
Q. Has anyone dealt with and know what a Passive Aggressive man is? I am in the midst of a two year battle of divorce because he continues to lie and drag his feet to produce things needed for court etc. He says he is " praying for me". He lies ...
A. 20 November 2009: Hi Sorry to hear what your gowing through , and glad because you have seemed to answer the question your asking yourself , he 100% sounds PA an maybe a little narcisstic and controling , it sounds like he has been very much in control in your ... (read in full...)
How can he not like sex and prefer masturbating?
Q. I am in a relationship with someone, but the thing is, he doesn't like sex. We've had it before, but he says he gets bored and it doesn't interest him/ doesn't feel as good as masturbating. "Why should i do in a vagina, what i can do with my hand?" ...
A. 6 November 2009: Either he is gay ( which i reckon he is and doesnt and cant accept it ) or he is embarrased by his preformance or size , or he is seriously depressed ... either way i think you should find someone who cant keep their hands to themselves , life is to ... (read in full...)
I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!
Q. My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...
A. 6 November 2009: Unfortuntley we cant help how we feel , but we are in charge of our actions , and if anyone is going to suffer , like partners of relationships you might be in ? or children you might have , well i seriously recommend staying well away from each ... (read in full...)
Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other?
Q. Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other . I am divorced and have known the guy in question for ten years . He helped me emotionally by talking ( no sex !) through the break - up . However now ...
A. 2 September 2009: If you have both realised your are attracted to each other and discussed it , it sounds like you have already been having an emotional affair , I think by staying in contact the next definate step is a full blown affair !! Sorry to be bl... (read in full...)
How do I get past my insecurities and make more of an effort in my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for going on three years. We have been through a lot in our relationship and I believe he really loves me. He always tells me how he wants me to marry him and have his kids and how I am the only one for him but yet I ...
A. 19 August 2009: hi
Sorry i dont quite know what you mean by your insecurities ? Its very obvious you have a man who adore's and loves you otherwise he wouldnt be around !
If you are having insecurities about your appearance or personaility then you should try t... (read in full...)
How can I cut free my widowed mother's apron strings?!
Q. hi i'm 26 and i want to move away with my boyfriend down south, to grad school, but i daren't tell my widowed mother whom i currently still live with. all of our family live in the same village and always have. mum and dad stayed near thei...
A. 20 August 2008: You need to get out A.S.A.P your mothers behaviour isnt normal , she sounds like a very insecure manipulative woman with narcissistic qualities, who feels the need to put you down to keep you down , because SHE is afraid really and doesnt want to be ... (read in full...)
Am I ruining our relationship?
Q. Hello, Sorry ahead of time for the lengthy post, but I feel like I'm in a real predicament here. I've been in a college program for the past couple months and have gotten to know one girl in particular pretty well. Let me preface this by sa...
A. 18 August 2008: It sounds like she is interested in you and that the signals you are sending back are those of someone who doesnt seemed to bothered with her ! I think you should bring up the going for a meal in her town , as she was the one who suggested it ! so ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my husband's mood swings?
Q. Dear Cupid My husband has happy days where he is nice to me and other days where he is so critical and calls me lazy and horrible names. Extreme mood swings. We are married 2 years since yesterday. I have a 2.5 year old, 14 month old and I'm 16 w...
A. 18 August 2008: Firstly im so sorry to hear about your miserable anniversary , by the sounds of it ! He might have a drink problem and maybe he is an alcoholic , I dont want to sound drastic but believe me you dont have to drink everyday to be one ! Its a disease ... (read in full...)
My soulmate married someone else. Do you think he will divorce like he told me? Can it work between us?
Q. Please. Please can someone give me some advice, as I feel like I am going insane and cannot cope anymore I met this man (my soulmate) 8 years ago and, and It was love (or a connection) at first sight, I remember sitting in the pub and being in...
A. 13 August 2008: I think its time to start living your life and leave him behind , He is a married man and sounds like he has serious commitment issues ,He wants his cake and to eat it to .
Seriously if you were the one for him why is he still with his wife who ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my husband's mood swings?
Q. Dear Cupid My husband has happy days where he is nice to me and other days where he is so critical and calls me lazy and horrible names. Extreme mood swings. We are married 2 years since yesterday. I have a 2.5 year old, 14 month old and I'm 16 w...
A. 13 August 2008: Have you tried talking to him ? Is he abusing drink or drugs ? Maybe he is suffering from depression ? Has he seen a doctor? or is he very stressed out about money worries ! But it isnt an excuse to direct his abuse at his pregnant wife thats just ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my ex?
Q. Hi, i was in a 7 year relationship with someone i really really loved. I did everything i could for him, while he attended school and just when ever he didn't have anything. He would never do anything with me at all. He always acted liked he was ...
A. 12 August 2008: oh you poor girl !!! What a horrible nasty human being he is ! You really need to move on with your life and although i know your finding it really hard you will be ok , Your right to cut of communication with him unless its to do with your daughter ... (read in full...)
Are there any other couples still using condoms after getting married?
Q. My husband and I are married less than a year and we're still using condoms just to play safe. We've tried without once or twice but are too scared. Just want to know if there are any couples who are still using condoms after getting married. Or...
A. 12 August 2008: The Coil is definitly the best , I was taking the pill for years and tried many of them but had to many side effects weight gain or no sex drive , the coil i have is the T-Coil it doesnt release any hormones . ... (read in full...)
Should I give things up just for him? I will feel compromised either way?
Q. I am 36 and met a guy a couple of years ago who is 4 years younger than me. I have been married before and it was the kind of marriage whereby I gave my all and my husband wanted no responsibility - consequently I put a lot of my own life 'on hold' ...
A. 12 August 2008: HI
I think you have pretty muched answered your own question , I don't think your relationship is strong enough for you move abroad and give up your dreams of opening your own buisness and leaving your friends and family behind , Its great he want... (read in full...)
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