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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for going on three years. We have been through a lot in our relationship and I believe he really loves me. He always tells me how he wants me to marry him and have his kids and how I am the only one for him but yet I still dont feel confident enough to support our relationship. The problem is that I dont call him or make an effort to see him. I just expect him to come to me. He is starting to get tired of my ways and I dont want to lose him. So my question is how do I get past my insecurities and make more of an effort in my relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, lola80  +, writes (19 August 2009):
hi
Sorry i dont quite know what you mean by your insecurities ? Its very obvious you have a man who adore's and loves you otherwise he wouldnt be around !
If you are having insecurities about your appearance or personaility then you should try talking to someone and the best one to if you can is your boyfriend as you need to have some kind of a bond if you want this relationship to work , try been honest , whats the worst that could happen , at least it will stop you from holding back and help him to understand you a little . Because at the end of the day if its going to work there is no point wasting your time or his ! Hope this helps .
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