This love just happened. How do I get over it? Why do I have to get over it?
Q. How do I get over this. I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the...
A. 27 June 2011: Get over anything you want except Love. Do not ever let a bad experience make you want to get over loving. Always give Love a chance. No matter how difficult it gets. It is our duty.... (read in full...)
I cant stand him pushing me away anymore! Should we take a break to show him what he is missing? Or just end it all together?
Q. I love my boyfriend to death and would do absolutely anything for him,and i do, but i'm just not happy anymore. I don't feel appreciated, wanted, or loved. There is absolutely no affection, when I try and be affectionate with him whether it be ...
A. 27 June 2011: If you love your boyfriend to death, as you said, then you will always be the winner, since there is no losing in loving. Concentrate on that feeling of love and everything else will take care of itself.... (read in full...)
I want to marry him but not his kids!
Q. I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i ...
A. 27 June 2011: You say that you really like this guy. Well, prove it. Love does not take in consideration this type of obstacles, it just loves. Those who really love are not concerned about their cut in the deal but only about the welfare of their partner. I... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me twice within our seven year relationship, I'm disgusted and hurt, but I love her so much. Should I forgive her?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend of seven years. After we got engaged she started acting weird and then finally about a week ago, she confessed something to me. She admitted on to having an affair four years ago that lasted for more than a year. ...
A. 24 June 2011: Of course you should forgive her. Always!
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Parasite Girlfriend is running me dry. What can I do?
Q. HELP!!!!! I am in a relationship with a girl I live with and have been dating for 2 years. Ever since I met her I have been paying all her bills. You name it I pay for everything...cell phone, car payment, rent, clothing, food, child support ...
A. 24 June 2011: The real lover does not give importance to how much he has given but rather to how much more he can give. The problem, then, it is no so much that you spend too much money on her but that your love is so weak that you care. Believe me: If you loved ... (read in full...)
Broken up with bf, and betrayed by friends. How do I overcome the sadness and loneliness?
Q. I am feeling really hurt and down. My bf and I broke up and it was my fault because I lied and probably hurt him. I guess as a result ppl started choosing sides. He is fun, and 'cool' and very popular. He is outgoing and I am shy and kind of ...
A. 24 June 2011: My friend. Do this experiment:
Concentrate on the loving feelings you have had with every man you have ever been with. Imagine re-living those moments over and over again and concentrate on those feeling of love.
Once you tap into this feeling,... (read in full...)
I desperately need her to like me!! What can I do?
Q. Right guys and girls i need your help. I am meeting a girl on Friday who i have for two years and i havn't seen her in a while. We're meeting up on a street corner and just going for a walk. She says that if we get on well we'll probably go out ...
A. 24 June 2011: Like yourself first and everything else will take care of itself... (read in full...)
I am worried about others dying....how do I overcome this fear?
Q. Not really a love prob but need advice Im 25and have a big problem with death I worry about loved ones dying a lot More then I think is normal My parents who i live with are 50 and 55 and i constantly worry about them I was even like this before the ...
A. 24 June 2011: My dear friend. Your fear of dying have ramifications way beyond your own personal discomfort. All your relationships are affected by such fear. How can we ever get really close to people if the fear of loosing them grows in proportion to the closer ... (read in full...)
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