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| | *ive2loveandlearn's profile:All I can say is that I will do my very best to give reasonable, logical, easy-to-understand advice that will not be biased regarding my personal feelings in matters. I believe advice should be like research, where one searches for the truth and facts, not a circulating case of "If I were you..."
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We should be careful and discriminating in all the advice we give. We should be especially careful in giving advice that we would not think of following ourselves. Most of all, we ought to avoid giving counsel which we don't follow when it damages those who take us at our word. - Adlai Stevenson
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My boyfriend accuses of cheating and calls me a slut!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, but I dont feel loved. we have been bestfriends for many years prior to our relationship and I think he cant cope with my past relationship. I was with this guy for many years back, and I gave talked to ...
A. 29 March 2011: I do understand that there are some cultural differences here, so I will try to keep this in mind as much as possible. You claim that you love him despite what he calls you and accuses you of on a regular basis. You also should recognize how this... (read in full...)
Is just talking about sex with another guy cheating?
Q. Hey guys, Me and my bf have been together for nearly 4 months now and I love him very much :) he's my first bf and i'm his first gf so it was kinda awkward in the beginning but now, it's great :) just to let you know, we didn't french kiss yet,...
A. 29 March 2011: Generally if you feel guilty about doing something it means that it doesn't set with you because it goes against what you feel is right - in this case your gut is telling you that what you are doing is wrong. While personally I feel that you are ... (read in full...)
How do I feel significant in life when everything seems so planned-out and predictable?
Q. I'm 14 years old, and i have absolutely no idea what i am here for. We're born, we live, we die. But what about after? I don't wont to be a speck of dust in the world. I want a legacy, a reason. Life seems so pre-made. It's tailored. I will go to ...
A. 20 March 2011: You are way too young to be worrying about such things in life, but then again I went through this very phase myself around your age and even re-enter it from time to time. No one wants to be 'dust in the wind'. Life does seem pre-planned, ... (read in full...)
I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen
Q. I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen. My husband hits my gspot and I feel like I have to pee but when I try to let it go I cant! I push it out like if im peeing and nothing comes out. Im frustrated because I want to experience that ...
A. 19 March 2011: According to what I've read on the subject, one needs to be very calm and aroused in order for this to happen. The very fact that you are trying so hard (and getting frustrated from the lack of success) could very well be hindering you. It is much ... (read in full...)
I'm really stuck on how to handle my nightmare of a girlfriend
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 22 and have a girlfriend of who is 16 years older. The relationship started very well and i was also just starting a new job with exellent pay and had bought my favourite car. My girlfriend worked full time as did I and I could on...
A. 19 March 2011: Relationships with individuals with personality disorders are always challenging. Does she take medication? Normally prescribed medication from a legitimate psychiatrist and regular counselling mellow out such outbreaks of anger and allows them to ... (read in full...)
Why do you want to meet up with your ex that broke up with you?
Q. Ok so this is probably nothing much but i'm really upset about it. So my boyfriend and i are dating for half a year and before that he had a seriuous relationship with a girl 1.5 years ago. So she and he still writes to each other. After seeing that ...
A. 11 March 2011: When it comes to relationships that one has spent a long time in and worked really hard on, it can be difficult to let things go when it doesn't work out. Some people cling to the past and want that contact with theo other person even if it isn't ... (read in full...)
Zodiac signs!
Q. I'm not particularly a big believer in Zodiac signs, but I'm kinda bored and interested in knowing what my Zodiac profile is. Sun = Pisces Rising = Aries Moon = Scorpio If it helps, I was born 20th February 1995, at 07:50am. I'm just wonder...
A. 8 March 2011: Sun sign: http://www.cafeastrology.com/zodiacpisces.html Rising sign: http://www.cafeastrology.com/risingsignsascendant.html Moon Sign: http://www.moonsigncalendar.net/moon-sign.htm You would have to join a site and get emails to get ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and pregnant. Happy but worried. I need some reassuring words to know this is going yo be okay!
Q. I'm 20 and I'm pregnant. I am on the pill and I've never missed one, although I am on anti-depressants so maybe that has stopped them from working? My doctor never mentioned it, so I think I've just been really unlucky. Except, I wouldn't class it ...
A. 7 March 2011: Have you brought this up with your family? Your mother will definitely be a big supporting role for you if you are honest and open with her (and let her get over the shock initially). These are hard times, and there will be a lot of stress and ... (read in full...)
Parents want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm not ready for that. How do I explain that to my parents?
Q. I am back together with my ex boyfriend after splitting up for 4 months. After constantly seeing each other (as we moved in the same circles), we became closer and decided to get back together, however before that we only dated for 3 months and our ...
A. 7 March 2011: It seems that your feelings are well thought out here. Have you considered just saying exactly what you've said here to your parents? Of course, all parents are normally eager to meet their son or daughter's 'love interest'. However, I see noth... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I act like a kid, how do I act older??
Q. My boyfriend says i act like a kid. So how can i act more my age?...
A. 5 March 2011: It depends on in what manners you are "acting like a kid". Have you asked your boyfriend about what specific traits you possess seem childish to him? For example, maybe you get easily upset when things don't go the way you planned or wanted. ... (read in full...)
Agressive partner or scared child??
Q. I've had a relationship with a man for 9 years. Although over 9 years ago we split up for a while, but, then we got back together. He can be aggresive and spiteful, but he never physically hurts me. But it's affecting my 13 year old girl, as they ...
A. 27 February 2011: Generally it is the held belief that a mother should place the best interest of her child above herself. A scared child is not a happy child and cannot flourish the way a child that feels safe can. I myself had a partner for over two years who was,... (read in full...)
I want to date my best friend!
Q. My best friend (male) and I are really close but when we were in first year we fought like cat and dog. Then he asked me out and I said no but now I really like him and have already asked him out and he said no. He is also sending mixed messages so ...
A. 27 February 2011: I remember this! I had a guy I thought I loved one year and the next I didn't want anything to do with him. It is a confusing time indeed!
So he used to like you and you didn't. Now you like him and he "doesn't" but acts like he may. Give it some... (read in full...)
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