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I feel like I am her second choice best friend!

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Question - (4 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ilylove1 writes:

My best friend is like a dear sister to me. I love her forever and she is my best friend. We agree about this a lot and hhave lots of notes and necklaces saying what best friends we are. However, whenever I am over she is always asking other people if they can hang out with her as soon as I leave. It seems kind of rude to me but I don't want to say anything. Plus, she also had his friend who she knows from her old school and whenever they post pictures of themselves or write messages about them being best friends it makes me feel like I'm the second option. Advice??

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A female reader, Lilylove1 United States +, writes (5 August 2010):

Lilylove1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much! That makes me feel a lot better. :)

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (4 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntwhen i was ur age, i had many of best friends..a whole group of them in fact. Ur friend is the type of girl who needs to have a best friend with her at all times, maybe she's insecure about herself..and craves that attention she doesnt get elsewhere i.e. from her rents. Ur not second rate, or second best..understand that ur best friend has the need of many of best friends and ur one of them

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