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I like having sex but that's all we got... Should I move on or keep at it?

Q.   Well I knew this guy for about 3 years now and recently we had sex a few times. I liked it and all but we were never together. I know that he only wanted me for sex but right now I dont want to get together with anyone so I would always have sex ...

A.   27 February 2010: Well if you only want sex from him and he only wants sex from you then it's a perfect match. If you want more than sex from him though he better move on or relaize you aren't going to get anything but sex from him, this won't change.... (read in full...)

My adult daughter's boyfriend "gropes" her in front of me... How can I deal with this?

Q.   I recently welcomed a young adult daughter back home after she started self harming because her same age boyfriend was disregarding her sexual wishes. He wanted to do some things she did not and forced these things on her. She is still his girlfr...

A.   27 February 2010: Yea, its showing disrespect and giving him a sense of control over your daughter as well as over you. It's clear this guy is a controlling scumbag. I'm certain your daughter has self esteem issues and thats why this guy is still around. Disc... (read in full...)

What was his mindset when he wrote this???

Q.   Recently I found out that my now ex boyfriend had been having an affair for what looks to be two years or possibly more. I found out about this just a few weeks ago and it's shattered my world. I'm trying to pick up the peices of my life and I am...

A.   27 February 2010: I think he wrote this to help him deal with the guilt of cheating or decision to cheat. He writes about how rough his work life has become and how he needs a change, ie: giving himself a justification to cheat. Certainly it could be depression or ... (read in full...)

My previous boss wont leave me alone and wants sex with me!

Q.   Howdy all well se i have been married for about 12 years now. I did make a mistake a few years ago i slept with my boss. Now he keeps on phoning me and tells me he missed me. me and my husband moved a few months ago to another city somehow he moved ...

A.   27 February 2010: You should record one these phone calls asap. Next setup a fake email account with a mans name. Email your old boss from the fake email account and attach the recorded call. In the email put "If there is any further contact of any nature to Mrs. ... (read in full...)

Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?

Q.   im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with....

A.   27 February 2010: Just be safe, one of the best advantages of being single is having sexual flings with no strings attached. ... (read in full...)

She is leaving regardless of whether I am coming with her or not, is she being unreasonable?

Q.   My girlfriend of six months is moving away for a new job. She will be a 12 hour drive away in a state and part of the country I don't like. It's not a desirable location. She could have a good job and stay here, but doesn't like the company....

A.   27 February 2010: Totally reasonable, you guys aren't married. She should put herself before you and if that means moving, with or without you, so be it.... (read in full...)

Unable to perform yet still aroused.

Q.   dear cupid my problem is i am 52 my partner is 40 its a new relationship although we did have one a long time ago we both regret not staying together 23 years ago we lost contact all this time but met again recently and realised we still love each ...

A.   27 February 2010: Dude, go get Cialis. 10-20mg and you'll be a champ 30-60 minutes after you take it, and it lasts all weekend. No, you don't walk around with a boner the whole time but you are able to get them when the mood strikes. Easy fix. [Moderator's note... (read in full...)

Will giving her my number scare her off?

Q.   I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have ...

A.   27 February 2010: Don't be a chump , you don't give her your number unless she asks for it. You have to ASK FOR HER number, that's how the game is played. ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to think. Boyfriend is still on dating sites.

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. Living together for 3 years. A couple of months ago I seen on our internet history he had been looking at escort websites. I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious and ...

A.   27 February 2010: Guys can be in happy realtionships and still want to hook up with girls. It's one thing to fantasize about doing it which you BF might just be doing that if we take his word for it but even that could very well lead to him to cheating later on when ... (read in full...)

Erection on and off. Is this normal?

Q.   me and bf were pleasuring each other but he kpt going soft then hard and he'd lose his erection but then in would come back. Whats does this mean? he didn't seem embarressed or anything he just said that he masterbated that morning. then we ...

A.   27 February 2010: He's probably nervous and thinking to much, just don't bring it up and over time it will work it self out. Talk dirty to him as well while you guy mess around to keep him from thinking to much.... (read in full...)

Facebook the cause of my problems.

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. i have recently moved away for uni. we both decided to delete our facebooks because they just cause so many problems, worrying about tagging in photos and worrying about who we were talking to, ...

A.   27 February 2010: If you 2 can't trust one another to have facebook pages then what's the point? A relationship without trust is doomed.... (read in full...)

What do these signs mean? Are boys driven away from because of my hobbies?

Q.   I'm 16 and I need some guys opinions, If this other guy smiles and comes right over then hugs me, or smiles at me and stares while I'm on stage singing, or is letting me put his hand on his leg and puts his hands and legs on me, always tickling ...

A.   27 February 2010: Best to find the guys who are nervous and or geeky around girls if you want a one who isn't going to be trying to get into your pants. And yes it sounds like the guy tickling you, feeling your leg likes you, is it just to get sex I can't say,... (read in full...)

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