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I love her, but I hate the toll I've taken on her

Q.   On New Year's Eve of last year I started dating an amazing girl, Kate. I was totally in love with her, she's amazing, sweet and incredibly hot. Less then two months later I was in a serious car accident that left me in induced coma for 8 weeks. ...

A.   29 August 2014: She does it out of love, and as such you don't need to feel guilty. Be thankful that you have found such a kind, loving and caring person who will put you before their own needs and desires. You must ensure that you reciprocate these behaviour ... (read in full...)

I gave my crush a note explaining my feelings and he created a big scene in front of our friends by reading it aloud and humiliating me

Q.   hey, having a bit of an issue. so, i've been friends with a guy for ages now, and recently, i developed feelings for him. so, i gave him a note explaining my feelings, because i'm not good at talking about these things face to face. a few day...

A.   18 May 2014: That's horrible, I feel extremely sorry for you- nobody deserves to be treated and humiliated in such an appalling way. If there are any positives to the situation, your crush has revealed his true colours. He's an unpleasant bully who you'd be ... (read in full...)

Almost 29 year old guy.... never ever had a girlfriend. Hard luck loser?

Q.   Hey everyone. Lots of thoughts/rants in relation to this topic. I'm turning 29 in a couple of months and have finished university, currently working in IT. Never had a girlfriend in my entire life, no woman has ever been interested in me...

A.   24 August 2013: I am quite a few years younger than you but have found that it can be incredibly hard to meet women that could actually be long term girlfriends. It's all very well chancing upon every social opportunity you're faced with and speaking to as many ... (read in full...)

I'm a nerd but I want a girlfriend

Q.   Hey guys, (and girls). I just need an opinion or a few tips for this question. Alright. I really don't know how to start this, so I guess I'll just say it as quick as I can. I'm a nerd, I want to be in a relationship with a girl, and everyone in ...

A.   7 February 2012: I can sympathise with your situation. If having deeply rooted interests in intellectually centered subjects counts as being 'nerdy' then I put my hand up. At 18 I had very little luck with women - so many of my friends and peer either had ... (read in full...)

If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?

Q.   If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...

A.   7 October 2011: I think it's always overly easy to worry about these things, especially whe you like someone and are trying to analyze every little facet of their behavior to discern whether they like you (or not). I know I'm not very good at it, but I suppose one ... (read in full...)

Why are guys put off by acne?

Q.   I just want to know why guys are put off by acne so much. I know I will probably sound full of myself by saying this, but before I got acne, guys were always talking to me (Most of my bestfriends were guys). Then when I turned 14, I started develo...

A.   1 January 2011: I'm not, speaking from a personal basis. At 14, I think that you will find very few relationships have any emotional depth to them. Generally, they are devices used to gain attention and popularity, or simply 'look cool'. Most of the guys that su... (read in full...)

17, nearly 18 and I've never had a girlfriend - should I be getting worried?

Q.   Less than five months ago I was a complete loner – I had never been to a party, only been out with friends and peers a few times, mostly on events organized by my school. I had a revelation in the summer that I myself would have to do something ...

A.   31 December 2010: I agree with you that I can be over analytical of my life in general but I disagree that it is paralysing me as such. The people I socialize with and my closest friends; we have been together since pre-school - a very long time. My argument for ... (read in full...)

17, nearly 18 and I've never had a girlfriend - should I be getting worried?

Q.   Less than five months ago I was a complete loner – I had never been to a party, only been out with friends and peers a few times, mostly on events organized by my school. I had a revelation in the summer that I myself would have to do something ...

A.   31 December 2010: I'd like to make it clear that I don't want to rush into anything - that is a bad approach to my "problem", if you can call it that. Besides I am avidly against 'dating for the sake of dating', however, the sort of person that I am, and the ... (read in full...)

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