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The myth of "best friends" of the opposite sex
Q. OK, I know I am going to get a lot of flack for this (assuming anyone read this) but from my experience and observation I believe that a heterosexual man and woman who claim to be "best friends" without any romantic feelings...is a myth. Almost al...
A. 27 February 2011: I agree. In all honesty, a male and female can not be just friends for too too long. Someone is going to want more. The exception would be two couples. A friendship could possibly work if there is no physical contact. I mean like via text messages ... (read in full...)
We broke up and now have a FWB relationship. I don't get much sex, and I feel used! Should I end it?
Q. So my girlfriend and I broke up a few months back, but kept a FWB relationship till one of us meet someone else. The only problem is that we actually have only had sex once or twice, yet every night she comes to my room, eats my food, watches my ...
A. 27 February 2011: Ending it would definitely be you saving your sanity. Think about it: one of you is going to be extremely hurt once the other finds a steady mate. And believe it may be you, because you are the one being used. You're not running to her place, she's ... (read in full...)
Can things happen this quickly when dating?
Q. Hey you all really need some help here. Got a job 2months ago and been hired with 13 people. On my 1st week there was this guy we hired together, he started calling me my woman, my girl asking for hugs, helping me with other works and for my cell ...
A. 26 February 2011: Whatever happened to just enjoying every minute of a courtship? That's my advise to you. Just enjoy it. :) Don't fret over how fast it may be going or how comfortable you may feel. Just let what is meant to happen, happpen. Worry about it being a ... (read in full...)
She knew I liked him. Why did she, and he, have this joke on me? Or did they really have sex?
Q. I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that. One day I came home from school and I saw...
A. 26 February 2011: Whether they did or didn't have sex isn't the true issue. The issue is why would they say they did and X go along with it if she knew how you felt about Z? This sounds like a duo that are not trustworthy. In any "ship" being friend or relation, ... (read in full...)
I need to stay strong for my family
Q. Back again. I have bored everyone with mt tales before of my Husband who cheated lied was not good with my kids he had started to get better on some things not on others when he came out with kids and i he still lookedlike it was a chore. A week ...
A. 26 February 2011: Before your husband, and even before yourself, you have to worry about your children. When you are dead and gone, they will live on and be someone's spouse and replicate the examples that you, as their parent have shown. What would you want to see ... (read in full...)
We had a great date but there was no spark
Q. Me and this girl who liked me went on a date today, I was thinking all the time should a hold out my hand so she can hold it and should I just take her by the waist and kiss her. I didn't end up doing any of this but I still don't actually think ...
A. 26 February 2011: Ok, first dates don't always generate a spark. Sometimes, it's an action or physical moment that generates that spark. There had to have been something if you were thinking on physical contact. A way to address it without feeling awkward on your ... (read in full...)
Moving on from an 18month relationship when he cheated
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been together for 18 months, but we split around 4 months ago, as he cheated on me.. I've been trying to get over him by going out with my friends, listening to songs to make me hate him and it works at the time, but a while ...
A. 26 February 2011: Getting over an 18 month relationship is sometimes torture. I totally agree. But ending all contact with that person is definitely extremely helpful. If you communicate with them in any way, it just stirs up those feelings that you have tried to ... (read in full...)
Crushing on a 27 year old, I'm 16!
Q. Ok well I have had the lonegt crush on this guy. I havent spoken to him much I just say hi and bye. he also happens to be much older than me he's less than thirty but hes still older and I cant seem to get him out of my head. I always catch myself ...
A. 26 February 2011: Every female gets that way at some point over an older guy. Be it a friend of a parent or a teacher, it's totally normal. However, seeing an attraction and acting on an attraction are two totally different things. I would say wait it out. For one, ... (read in full...)
He's tetchy and says its because of no sex. Should I end things?
Q. I have been together with my fella for 8 years. When we met, he had an addiction to porn. I did not want porn to be part of our relationship and told him this clearly. We battled for 5 years and finally he gave it up saying he wanted me more than ...
A. 26 February 2011: Lightly put, you both have invested 8 years into one another. You stopping him from his enjoyment in something stiffled him. However he was willing to put it aside, because he wanted you more than the porn. To run away without trying to work it out ... (read in full...)
The No Contact Rule
Q. The last time I saw my boyfriend was on Valentine's Day. After that we spoke on the phone and we had an argument and he said he needed space. We have known one another on and off for many years and we were separated for several more years and then, ...
A. 26 February 2011: The "no-contact" rule is simple: leave him alone. It's extremely hard getting over someone that you love and want to be with. But the no-contact rule gives you an opportunity to make a clean break. For instance, delete all of the contact information ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend often picks his best girl mate over me!
Q. Hello:) My problem isn't too big, but it's bothering me. Basically, I'm with this guy who've been with a month, but liked for a while, and things couldn't be better. He treats me amazing and I'm so happy. But. His best mate Amy, is really hard to g...
A. 26 February 2011: Being as though it is high school, everything is all about trial and error. What you learn is that either you are going to have to speak up and let him and her know that the "harmless" acts are irritating you, or you are going to have to rely on ... (read in full...)
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