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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello:)My problem isn't too big, but it's bothering me. Basically, I'm with this guy who've been with a month, but liked for a while, and things couldn't be better. He treats me amazing and I'm so happy.But. His best mate Amy, is really hard to get on with. We're together a lot because of school, and he seems to always pick me over her and it seems to bother her a bit. Anyway, first of all I noticed some flirting. Nothing big, but once she got out a quiz in a magazine which was all about sex and was going to him 'which one do you think I would be', he was completely oblivious, as always. And once, for some reason she stared at him for a while and then looked away, whilst I was sat next to him, and he just laughed and went 'What was that all about?'.It's never bothered me much, because he doesn't flirt with her in the slightest, yet recently he told me just before we got together, they kissed and she made a move on him. He didn't act upon it (or so he told me), but now everything she does makes me paranoid and makes me think something would happen?Should I say something?Advice much appreciated! xx
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reader, ladyprestige  +, writes (26 February 2011):
Being as though it is high school, everything is all about trial and error. What you learn is that either you are going to have to speak up and let him and her know that the "harmless" acts are irritating you, or you are going to have to rely on trust. Either way, you have to see what you can live with or without. For instance, if you say nothing, you would be relying on trust. That means, let her acts go un noticed and stop stressing about something you don't see your boyfriend acting on. Or have your boyfirned confront her and let her know that he chose you over her and to step off. Either way, if your boyfriend is true to you, you will have to trust him.
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