I thought she was neat and together -- turns out she's a slob who turns everything into a pity party
Q. im a neat freak so to speak and my girlfriend is pretty much a slob. verry careless in her mannerisms not like when we first met. I was lead to believe she was neet and clean and hard working with herself somewhat together. She was in school on ...
A. 5 May 2013: Once again, honesty is the best policy. Your friend may need a professional counselor to work out abandonment issues. Don't be hard on her but don't be her counselor if you don't want to. Be her friend but don't prolong the inevitable by continuing ... (read in full...)
Should I approach my crush, or just get over her?
Q. Hi all sorry if this is long, I need your advice on how to get over a crush. To start off with I am 28 and the woman I have a crush on is 40. I have never been out with a bloke before so obviously as you can tell I am very introverted, or ...
A. 5 May 2013: If your friend is gay, you should be honest about your attraction. This is the initial step. But leave the possibility there for her that if she's only interested in friendship, that you will be fine with that. Otherwise, you might lose a ... (read in full...)
My b/f treats me like a door mat. How do I move forward?
Q. I'm a 2nd year stundent at varsity, im 19, and the guy im dating is also a 2nd year, he's 20. But this isn't a maturity . The problem more than anythng is that i have a very low self-esteem and as a result people treat me like a doormat. ...
A. 5 May 2013: You must learn to love yourself in order to be valued by others. If you're being treated like a doormat by Anyone, that is a Toxic relationship. All it does is further damage your self esteem. No relationship or "friendship" should occur at the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't let her ex go.. What should I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half. When I started into my relationship, my girlfriend had been broken up from her ex for 1 year. About the time that I came into her life was when her ex started contacting her. She was very ...
A. 5 May 2013: Your girlfriend started a new relationship with you before she'd had closure with her previous relationship. You can get counseling with her and figure out if she's really ready for a new relationship. Or you can continue to see how it goes with ... (read in full...)
Is he really worth spending my life with?
Q. dear cupids, i love a man of great generosity and respect to me, we has been together 11 month now and we were planning to get married after a year my parents would only accept him as my husband only if he have a 4 room apartment and a 1200000...
A. 5 May 2013: Your boyfriend may be looking for or may have found a woman whose parents are requiring less of him financially. If he appears to be pulling away from you, he probably is. You must sit down with him and honestly discuss these issues. If he's ... (read in full...)
What am I missing? Do women just want to play games when dating?
Q. I was having dinner with my guy friends last night, and we were sharing recent dating experiences. Two of us are in our early 30s and the other guy his late 30s. As we shared our stories, a common theme emerged - we were tired of people playing ...
A. 5 May 2013: It's ironic that there are many women who are looking for a good man who would be a good match for marriage and children. And they often complain about men just "using" them and also "playing games". There are both men and women who just want a ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a man 21 years older than me. Could it work?
Q. Hi, I am a 26 year old woman and I find a 45 year old man attractive who barely looks 40, he could pass for late 30s. My question is does anyone know of any successful stories of people with an age gap this big? My ex was 36, we split due to other ...
A. 5 May 2013: If you're hung up on the age difference, it will end up bothering you as he gets older and you're still 20 years younger. If you're not, and the relationship is based on compatibility and love, age will not matter. But only you know the answer to ... (read in full...)
We've run our course, but our holiday abroad is imminent. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?
Q. So very confused. I will keep this as short as I can... I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years, but I feel it has run its course. She is a great girl, I still like her very much, but I don't see a future with her and haven't for quit...
A. 5 May 2013: Planning a holiday with a woman whom you're no longer romantically interested in was foolish. But now that it's done, you should pay for her share of the holiday and if she has a friend who'd like to go with her, pay for that as well, and let her ... (read in full...)
We weren't exclusive and both slept with others. He got an STD so he had to tell me. Do I tell him I slept with someone else too?
Q. I met this guy 3 months ago at a party in a city 'bout 3 hours from where I live. Within 5 mins of talking, he asked for my number. We didn't have much time to talk that night, maybe danced for a bit, and I had to go back to the hotel with my ...
A. 5 May 2013: You should firstly notify the other man you slept with about being exposed to a venereal disease so that He can seek treatment and hopefully inform anyone Else he might have had sexual relations with. Then, you have the choice to inform the "std" ... (read in full...)
Will she come back to me because I can support her and her kids?
Q. I married a philippine women 3.years ago and I.regret that everyday of my life but im glad I discovered she was going to use me for a green card because I.went.back to visit her and.discovered she was sleeping with so many men and I wonder is she ...
A. 5 May 2013: You should feel grateful that your "green card bride" showed her true colors early on. Do what you can to support your kids and don't entertain the notion of reconciliation with an immoral, user of a woman. Find yourself someone to love who can ... (read in full...)
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