I want to know how much I mean to her and if she's ever going to grow out of her tendency to only have short relationships?
Q. My girlfriend (we'll call her Hiei, and I'll be Kurama) lives in Louisiana and I live in Pennsylvania. I'm 20 and she's 18(now). We have had a sort of on-again-off-again relationship since January 2007. We dated online for six months, the first ...
A. 19 December 2008: To sianybarney-
I actually asked her (with a text message) 'Would you like me to come down to LA Dec. 13th-20th? If yes, ask your mom.'
I've been raised to not invite myself over to other people's houses... but last year I tried to invite ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my girlfriend, any self-help methods you can recommend?
Q. i am in a relationship with a very charming and beautiful woman who is my classmate in the university and also a ex-colleague in a modelling agency. she's bisexual, and i was straight before i met her.. it wasnt too difficult for us to get to...
A. 16 December 2008: You're in love, dear. It makes me miss my own girlfriend(I'm like you are, to an extent). I wish you well.
If you're really nervous, I'd ask her if it's bothering her. :3
You're lucky.... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual - why does my interest for guys last so shortly?
Q. please help me! i am bi and have been attracted to many women, and a few men. recently i found out that the overall attraction i have for any guy would not last more a month. i don't know why this has been happening, but i know those guys who have ...
A. 16 December 2008: It sounds like you're either a lesbian, or can't hold interest in a relationship. Have you ever been in a relationship with a girl? Perhaps you should try that out and see if you get bored like you tend to do with men. If not, then it's likely you ... (read in full...)
Should I buy my girlfriend a dildo for Christmas?
Q. My problem is so weird.... and I'm kinda stuck... my girlfriend and I tell each other everything and she told me she had tried a friend's dildo before and it was fun for her and she loved it but it was her friend's moms so she never had a chance to ...
A. 16 December 2008: ...okay, bud. You're still in high school. Cool it down a few notches. Yes, yes, you'll hate me for this--are you having safe sex, when you do do it? In my opinion you shouldn't do it at all, you're so young... I mean, really. Is she your first? Are ... (read in full...)
Why is he acting like this?
Q. My guy friend has a girlfriend since then he been ignoring me and all the other girls. If I say to hi to him he'll give a funny look and keep walking. Then a new kid came to my school (he gets in trouble a lot) we become friends. My friend (the one ...
A. 16 December 2008: Dear--you shouldn't have 'bit his hand' when he reached out to you. His girlfriend's probably the jealous type. You should approach him, and apologize for saying "I'm sorry, but do I know you?" because that likely really hurt his feelings. Talk to ... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to do?????
Q. I'm a 25 year old woman who is in love with a married man. We practically live a married life together as we both work away from home in the construction industry and we spend 40 weeks together of the year and he goes home to his wife 12 weeks out ...
A. 16 December 2008: Ask him why he hasn't filed for divorce. You aren't a bad person... When you started out(because he and his wife were separated), that wasn't bad. However, it became a bad situation when he continued to date you when he got back together with his ... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with him so I can get back to my work?
Q. I have a question.. I kinda already know the answer, I guess I just need conformation. Here it goes.. So I've worked with this guy for a few months. He is sooo hot. So hot its distracting. I find myself not focusing @ work because I stare @ him.. A ...
A. 16 December 2008: Bad. Idea. All around! You're being selfish, because all you want is to sleep with him because he's 'hot', give no regard to how you might ruin his marriage because of your own wants/needs. He married her for a reason, and an affair is always messy ... (read in full...)
My daughters are calling my girlfriend nasty names and I can't get them to stop!
Q. My daughters (they're only 8 and 5 of age) call my girlfriend (of 2 years) names like b!tch, s*ut, wh*re, ugly, fat, skank, smelly, tramp and the list goes on. I cant them to stop. Of couse I give them time out after time out but its losing its ...
A. 16 December 2008: Sit down with your girls very seriously--at the kitchen table, or in the living room--and tell them that their behavior is unacceptable. The words they are using are 'bad words' and they shouldn't use them. Threaten to take away things they like to ... (read in full...)
How do I go about meeting her?
Q. This girl i've never met, but we text/email often, seen pics of her, etc. I want to meet her but dunno how to say it. It'll be so awkward. How do i go about it? And what can we do? She does live an hour away so goin for coffee isn't worth it. Lol...
A. 16 December 2008: Just say you want to meet her, silly. xD An hour is nothing! My girlfriend lives in Louisiana, you should be grateful yours is so close. I'd buy tickets to an event with lots of people, maybe go out on a 'group date' with some of her friends and ... (read in full...)
I'm 29 and never had a boyfriend, any advice from the male?
Q. hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they r...
A. 16 December 2008: Try online dating sites. I know it sounds stupid and cliche, but that's why they're there. I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend, and only once been on a real 'date' with my girlfriend. I don't know if I'll ever have a boyfriend, really. Girls are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is gay!
Q. I just found out my boyfriend of 6 months is gay. 6 months may not seem like a long time at all, but for me it feels like my whole world….and yet it feels like it wasn’t long enough. It is all to hard to explain how I feel but I keep trying and I ...
A. 16 December 2008: Take a deep breath. Think about if you really want to hurt him for making you hurt. If you still love him, you shouldn't want to hurt him, no matter what he's done. I don't think being angry with him will help. I think you need to tell him how ... (read in full...)
What to do with my hands when I kiss someone...
Q. Hey, I've never been kissed before and I'm wondering what am I supposed to do with my hands? Hold his hands? Hold the back of his neck? Run them through his hair? Any suggestions? Especially guys, tell me what you like? thanks ...
A. 16 December 2008: Well... when I first kissed my girlfriend (this year, I'm 20, too) I cupped my fingers under her chin and tilted it up.
For girls... if it's your first kiss, I'd simply stand there and enjoy it. If you have time, worry about hugging around t... (read in full...)
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