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How can you justify looking at violent or rape porn?

Q.   I don't just mean like being beaten and screaming, I mean the stuff where the woman gets her head shoved in a toilet, where the guy does anything until she cries or gags, etc... Why is that OK to get off on so long as it's not child porn or ...

A.   15 August 2011: Some people on here have said porn on the internet is not real or if there is some it would be hard to find and quickly removed. However, I looked at a free porn webite when I was curious and a bit bored. I think it is a popular site cos it was at ... (read in full...)

Checked out a porn link in my b/f's history

Q.   I have a huge problem with my boyfriend's porn watching habbit. We've talked about it, and despite saying he'd never watch again, he still watches it every time I'm not home like I knew he would. But that's not EXACTLY why I'm upset. I feel super ...

A.   14 August 2011: I understand what you mean about some of porn sites having disturbing porn on. I am a female and I was curious what porn was actally like and whether I would actually like it or not and I thought this way I could judge whether it was wrong more too. ... (read in full...)

He says "I love you" at the strangest times...

Q.   I have a problem. My current boyfriend of 10 months has been saying "I love you" for about a week now, but at real random times. Like the first time was when I was in the shower and he was brushing his teeth. He said "Babe?" and I said "yeah" over ...

A.   25 February 2006: i dont think those times sound that weird, the perfect times to say you love someone are whenever you feel it, there are no rules. It mite show he's relaxed around you and i think the shower/teeth moment sounds quite cute. U should be glad hes ... (read in full...)

Walked in on my boyfriend and discovered his DVD of porn!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and I love him very much and don't wont to lose him. But this morning I found a porn film in his room. We have descused porn before and I've explained that I personaly don't like it. But the issue is that I ...

A.   24 February 2006: You should not feel unattractive. this guy love YOU! not just you body, YOU! Porn is just a fantacy. those girls dont even look like that in real life, they have loadsa make-up n oli n fancy clothes put on to meet guys fantacies. its natural n ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to try oral sex, but I can't get past my revulsion...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and only in the last week or so, he's voiced his desire to attempt oral sex. The act has no appeal to me whatsoever and I am highly reluctant to attempt it. He says that whatever I decide w...

A.   24 February 2006: I personally dont like a guy performing oral on me, it feels weird. But i do like giving oral and i dont see any reason why putting it in your mouth is highly different to him putting it down there!? I've put far more things in my mouth than dow... (read in full...)

Needed someone I trusted to talk to, but when I confided in my friend, I was suddenly a "bringdown"...

Q.   My ex-best friend decided a couple weeks ago that I was whoring her attention and ignoring her. I had just started talking to her about my rape experience and needed someone I trusted to help me through the sad and suicidal times. But then she ...

A.   24 February 2006: I think your friend is being quite insensitive. It is not like you have no reason to feel the way you do after your rape experience. Tell her how you feel a little let down but give her space every now and again. You should listen to her opinions ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about when I start my period...

Q.   My mum is really great and has told me all about sex and periods and everything, but I still cringe when she talks about it to me. I'm worried that when I start my period, I will be too shy to tell my mum about it, and what if I start at school? I...

A.   24 February 2006: I started at school and if u dont have majorly heavy periods its fine becuase you can just use rolled up toilet paper to stop it staining or sumthing till u get home. Dont worry bout it, it'll be fine. I dont like tampons very much cos i dont lik... (read in full...)

My bf is in the army and I miss him so much. Do army relationships work?

Q.   My boyfriend is in the army, i miss him loads, dont know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two months and he is in the army, i barely see him, only every other weekend, he told me he loves me already i'm not sure to believe this as ...

A.   24 February 2006: I was seeing a guy in the army in January and he told me he was going to Iraq for four months in feb. Because of that he told me we should become an item only when he's here and when he's gone we should split up. He said this is the best solution ... (read in full...)

Me and my bf try to have sex but his penis wont go in!!

Q.   I've tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but his penis just won't go in! Is there something wrong with me or can this happen to anyone? I was really in the mood and i don't know what's going wrong, is it just that i'm nervous and ...

A.   24 February 2006: I had that problem my first time and even with the second guy i slept with for the first time because i was so nervous. I realised if u relax its so much easier and just keep trying as well. The most important thing is dont start panicking or ... (read in full...)

How long before we should get physical?

Q.   This question is a bit like asking how long a piece of string is? How long is usual these days to make a man wait before kissing, cuddling, sex occurs? Been seeing a guy for 2 months. He is lovely but I get the feeling he is losing interest...

A.   24 February 2006: Hello, i have had the total opposite problem, i got physical with a guy to soon and now he doesnt seem interested in us dating all our relationship has become is based on sex. Its as if now he's got what he wants thats all he cares about. Its really ... (read in full...)

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