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I want to encurage my g/f to lose weight!

Q.   Hello, I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years. We both grew heavier than we used to be. This year I was able to lose the weight I'd gained by changing my diet. I would like my girlfriend to lose weight and get back into the shape she used...

A.   31 December 2009: awe. i think its very sweet your thinking about both and not bluntly telling your girlfriend about her weight. The best way i say is keep doing what your doing. Because encouragement and empowerment helps people have confidence in themself beca... (read in full...)

How do I regain self confidence and feel worthy again?

Q.   How do you regain self confidence after someone have cheated on you? Especially if the other woman was beautiful. How do I feel worthy again and not so ugly....

A.   1 November 2009: I understand how you feel. What i did was, I believed in myself and tried to forget about him and made myself better. And also that someone who is better will come. And i don't know if this makes you feel better but be single for a bit enjoy fl... (read in full...)

Do you think he'll write me sometime?

Q.   well i barly graduted from high school. i still have a crush on the football player. but we go to two diffrent colleges, i dont get to see him anymore. an our highschool theirs football games, the last game is novemeber 5. which i hope to see ...

A.   26 October 2009: its actually optimistic but if you really like him then go for it ! ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do. I love him, I think?

Q.   I'm so confused. After 4 years of staying true to one person it seems pointless. I have been in love with one person for the past four years and I just recently told him. He said I kinda like you and I have thought about you a lot. I do feel ...

A.   23 October 2009: i understand how you feel a guy choosing someone else over you etc.. yea its very hurtful. but i just guess that means since he knows how you feel about him he will give you a chance like get to know you more spend more time with you.... (read in full...)

Is holding out on sex normal when dating?

Q.   I've been dating to meet the right guy. I don't put out until I know its right and we have the discussion to be exclusive. It seems after about 4 dates the guy doesn't call. What is the standard of putting out dating these days (I've been out of ...

A.   21 October 2009: waiting on having sex is totally normal but if a guy liked you then he would wait and respect your decisions, it seems like he kinda seemed like he wanted only that one thing but i think he spent the night and cuddled to hide what he actually want... (read in full...)

Will reverse psychology work to get him back?

Q.   Still trying to get the ex back. We got into an argument because i think i rushed into things to quickly and this is what he sent me on a tex message. " I'm not lookig for a relationship and you are, so I think it would be better if we just didn'...

A.   21 September 2009: Im not Male but I think you should just give it some time and contact himlater acting like nothing happend but prove to him you are willing not to argue anymore ... (read in full...)

I feel like he's playing with my emotions

Q.   Here's what's happening... I really like this one guy. He's sweet and doesn't go after looks like most other guys I know. I first met him two years ago when I was upset and he gave me tissue to wipe my eyes with, I thought it was sweet of him. E...

A.   21 September 2009: To my opinionhe seems to be a player be a guy that doesn't know how to make up his mind or know what he wants My advice keep him as a flirt but try to not to be close to him as my h show himhat he's not the only thing in your Life be different then... (read in full...)

My girlfriend had sex with someone else more than a week after our break up. We're back together, is she more likely to cheat?

Q.   My girlfriend and i were dating for a year and i broke up with her on our one year anniversary due to constant fighting and other bullshit. (nothing big though) after i realized that i shouldnt have been so quick to let her go, i quickly asked her ...

A.   19 September 2009: If she would do that,that quickly after a breakup then it's best to move on and find someone better.... (read in full...)

Am I being needy or is she just a lousy girlfriend?

Q.   Okay, in a nut shell... My cousin set me up with her best friends sister, which I went to highschool with and knew of but had never actually met. I am now three years out of highschool and in University(21) She is also at the same university a...

A.   19 September 2009: She does sound like a lousy gf from your post but if she hasn't even contacted you often or make any plans then I say you deserve someone better... (read in full...)

Should I break up with her? I feel like it's now or never.

Q.   Me and my gf been together for 8 months. very wierd relationship, it was rocky from the start but I decided to move away about 3months into it and broke up with her. we started going out again 3 days later and the relationship has never been better. ...

A.   19 September 2009: If you don't want to spend the rest if your life with someone your not compatible with or ashamed of then break up with her. It will be hard.yes but follow yourbheart before you regret evything later... (read in full...)

She's committed to him but we sleep naked together. What is going on?

Q.   I met a girl whom I honestly believe is The One for me. We were dating for barely 3 weeks when she told me that she was seeing another man. I accepted that and continued on with the "relationship" because we never said we were exclusive, and t...

A.   19 September 2009: I think honestly thinks she is attracted to you but she wants to be with the other guy more but wants to keep you as a back up.... (read in full...)

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