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writes:Here's what's happening...I really like this one guy. He's sweet and doesn't go after looks like most other guys I know. I first met him two years ago when I was upset and he gave me tissue to wipe my eyes with, I thought it was sweet of him.Ever since then I've been adoring him from a distance. He was in a relationship with another girl for over a year, so I was extremely surprised to hear that he had broke up with her a few weeks ago. We've just recently been texting and through questions I ended up confessing to him that I like him a lot. He told me he likes me some, but he has feelings for another girl at the moment, but I'll get my chance.That Friday he invited me to a bonfire. It went swell, besides the fact that I had to watch him snuggle with this girl for an hour.So he invited me over two days after that, and it went well. He kept having the urge to kiss me, and I just wanted to be so close to him... but he was in a relationship, so no good there.When I get home he texts me that he likes me a ton, more than the girl he's with now. I ask him why he's still with her, and he says that he wants to give her a chance.Yesterday we all got home early from school, I kept trying to text him but he never replied. This morning he told me that he got to hang out with his girlfriend for 10 and a half hours and that just made me snap. I didn't really say anything back, but in my mind, I was so angry. Why would he tell me that? What should I do/say? He's upset at the moment because he had a fight with a good friend of his, but I'm so torn and feel so lonely.. I don't want to do anything stupid. :( Thanks a ton for reading, and even more for replying!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): --Original Poster of the Question--
Thanks guys! I really appreciate the help. :)
I think I'm gonna just back down and wait for him to come to me. We'll wave and smile at each other when we walk by, but I'll be sure he's the one to initiate conversation and stuff.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
This guy isn't worth one second of your time. He's toying with you, which is very very cruel. Do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who simply says to you that 'you'l get your chance'!? I certainly hope not. There are other guys out there, and thankfully some are better. Go and find a nice guy instead.
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reader, Girl with heart  +, writes (21 September 2009):
Sheesh, guys and their games, huh.
Well, the best thing you can do is distance yourself. Seriously, sometimes that's the best way to make him miss you. Only when you're not available, can he really see what his life is like without you in it. And he'll come scurrying back. Here's an article i found for you to read. It will give you great advice on how to draw him to you. It's the advice many girls avoid, and yet it works like a charm!!! Go check it out, girl:
http://www.guygirlmag.com/chicklit.htm
Good luck
xx
GWH
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reader, Stooch +, writes (21 September 2009):
Any guy who can juggle a couple girls like this isn't really worth the time of day. He's open about doing it too, which really makes you wonder about not only his ego, but what he thinks of you! Issues with his friend don't factor into this so don't get easily fooled!
I'm sure you're not a pushover. So don't let him have his cake and eat it too.
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reader, Kg15 +, writes (21 September 2009):
To my opinionhe seems to be a player be a guy that doesn't know how to make up his mind or know what he wants
My advice keep him as a flirt but try to not to be close to him as my h show himhat he's not the only thing in your Life be different then the other girls and show him you are hard to get
It's hard to get over someone your really attached to but hold the urge to talk to him
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