I was so close to me and my ex getting back together and I feel like I ruined it.
Q. I need help, I was so close to me and my ex getting back together and I feel like I ruined it. I went over and accused him of so much more than the situation really was. I told him I hated him from the bottom of my heart, that i would have sex with ...
A. 16 November 2010: your right, im just so worried about him i know i hurt him. But im hearing he looks to be okay. He doesnt hold stuff though so i guess time will tell. ... (read in full...)
Are baby steps the right way to go about this?
Q. I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out ...
A. 1 November 2010: your thinking way to hard in it. I dont know the reason yall broke up. But he said he wants to make things work out. You cant rush it. If yall had barely any communication before itll be a while. But its not just you and just because he wants you ... (read in full...)
By the hair of my chinny chin chin...
Q. hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to ...
A. 1 November 2010: lol this is quite funny. I would say tell her straight up but not knowing the type of girl she is. Not so much, if you guys play around a lot say it as a joke but dont really mean it. BUt secretly you are. Or maybe a friend of hers that you can talk ... (read in full...)
Should I give him more space?
Q. He said we could still be friends, and i want to. We still love each other but broke up 2 days ago. NOt necessarily because my my insecurity and trust problems.. assumptions, but it made us unhappy. I still want this and I think he does too, he just ...
A. 28 October 2010: and i have told him everything besides i hope he waits and thats what i really want to say. Should that be something he knows if i do get counseling. And im thinking right now of a letter...to tell him. So i dont put to much pressure on the ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have lost another family member, I don't know what to do anymore....
Q. Hello. Im hoping somebody can help me get some answers to whats wrong with me at the moment. I am 37 years old and feel like im going mad. I shall start at the begining. When I was 6 months old, my biological mother left me out in the rain over ...
A. 28 October 2010: You have been through such a struggle. And I dont know you but im very proud. She is right you do have abandonment issues but she should be there for you, not only as your guardian but like you mum. SHe took the responsibility to be there for you ... (read in full...)
My jealousy's slowing us down.
Q. I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?...
A. 28 October 2010: you have to have a reason to not trust him, has he given you a reason not to? If not, then work on it with him talk to him. dont attack him but find out why, with whom make sure he knows what you do and dont like. But if it isnt reasonable, ... (read in full...)
Should I give him more space?
Q. He said we could still be friends, and i want to. We still love each other but broke up 2 days ago. NOt necessarily because my my insecurity and trust problems.. assumptions, but it made us unhappy. I still want this and I think he does too, he just ...
A. 28 October 2010: that sounds like a good approach, but when i do clear my head how do i let him know rather than that. I want him back. i mean I love him to death but i just want to let him know. Im ready and if he wants it then it can happen, but how will I know. ... (read in full...)
How do I become a stronger person?
Q. I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do?...
A. 27 October 2010: and when i told a certain someone i would change i think he took it the wrong way. like i would change my personality i cant change. Just better myself right, and in a way isnt that the same as saying im changing. We are broken up now as of 2 days. ... (read in full...)
I need help. I don't want to give up on us, I just don't know what to do...
Q. I promise to make this as short as possible. Me and my (ex) boyfriend were together not that long but 6 months. We were not together 3 months out of the 6 and basically lived together a month and a half out of the other 3. THe months we were apart ...
A. 27 October 2010: thanks so much..that really helped.... (read in full...)
We are on a week break of our 7 year relationship. What do you think will happen?
Q. My boyfriend and I are Juniors in College, both 21, and have been dating for 7 years. We love each other dearly, but feel we have no time for each other. we never fight, and frankly I feel like we have a very good relationship.. when its going good ...
A. 26 October 2010: okay you are right, if he loves you ofcourse its not a hook up. But PLEASE stop if you love this man with all your heart I know at times itll feel like everything is so rough but you have to fight for it. He is probably tired of the arguments and ... (read in full...)
He says he's not a bad guy, can I believe him?
Q. there is a guy and we used to kiss and snog but it didn't really mean anything i think it is something like friends with benefits? and we are really good friends. then he liked this girl and now they are going out. but me and him are really r...
A. 26 October 2010: I know you want to stay friends with this guy, but your falling for him so unless you tell him how you feel and he feels the same way then please leave it alon. He may want to know if the feelings you had before are still there, yes he does sound ... (read in full...)
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