How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.
Q. Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...
A. 20 March 2008: how are you doing .... i needed to come on this question because i was going to break no contact. This provides me the support i need for no contact... (read in full...)
How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.
Q. Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...
A. 16 March 2008: Been there done that. All I can say is .... take it one day at a time. You are punishing yourself every time you contact him. If you feel like contacting him ... you should play the phone call out in your head ... does he make you feel better? ... (read in full...)
Cheating on Internet sites
Q. How can I stop my boyfriend from going into porn and the chatting sites? He says he loves me but then again his talking dirty to all this women and lying to them. ...
A. 6 March 2008: Oh honey.... I think that you have probably expressed your feelings towards his chosen behavior.
He has chosen to ignore your feelings and continues to do what he pleases. That is what selfishness is.
You can stand on your head and hold your bre... (read in full...)
My ex found out she is HIV positive. If I am infected, how do I tell my girlfriend?
Q. A few days ago, I got a series of rather disturbing test messages on my cell phone from a number I didn't recognize. After a little searching around, I found out that it was an ex-girlfriend whom I was on bad terms with. Long story short, the ...
A. 4 March 2008: I'm so sorry you are going through this ordeal. I think that you should tell your current girl friend the truth. She knows something is up she will be upset with you if she finds out that THIS is what you were hiding from her. You can deal wit... (read in full...)
My ex ran off with another girl, but he still loves me, what should I do?
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years. Things didn't work out and I didn't think I loved him. When we broke up, about 2 months later, I started feeling really bad. I love this person. I was told that he was cheating on me while we ...
A. 4 March 2008: Good girl... Keep it up. I found the first week of NO CONTACT the worst. It does get better and you tend to look at the relationship differently. Maybe it wasn't what you thought it was.
I'm proud of you, come back and talk to us if you need str... (read in full...)
My ex ran off with another girl, but he still loves me, what should I do?
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years. Things didn't work out and I didn't think I loved him. When we broke up, about 2 months later, I started feeling really bad. I love this person. I was told that he was cheating on me while we ...
A. 3 March 2008: You need to stop communicating with him. It is the only way. I agree that he will always have a girl on his arm ALWAYS, maybe even 2-3. You need to move on. I know you love him but he is disrespectful, a liar and a cheat. I would recommend a book... (read in full...)
I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?
Q. I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...
A. 27 February 2008: I'm so sorry you are going through this. I met my ex and thought the same thing. I went to my sisters house and said "i met the man I want to marry". The first 6 months were great .... then he started texting women "get out of my head", went on an ... (read in full...)
Will this man marry me, or am I wasting my time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 3 yrs - He says he loves me - My b-day just came and went and he jokingly told others his gift to me was that I could be his friend for another year - I am so sad - this is the same man who says he loves me - I ...
A. 25 February 2008: There are a couple of things that I would like to say. First of all, he is not sending you mixed signals .... you just aren't listening to them. I don't think that he wants to marry you because correct me if I am wrong, but there should be NO reason ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and I can't get rid of the anger I feel towards him.
Q. hi my boyfriend cheated on me and i know he is sincerley sory and i want to forgive, though i try i just can't seem to get rid of this anger i feel towards him, even though i know he is sorry and has told me he regrets it cant explain why he did it ...
A. 24 February 2008: Wow...this is a common theme around here. I would not be so quick in taking him back. I did that with my ex and I regret it. He will learn that it is o.k. to treat you this way, that it is o.k. to disrespect you, that it is o.k. to lie. I once ... (read in full...)
I don't feel loved by him...
Q. Wow, when I didn't things could get worse. My boyfriend and I went through a really rough time. He cheated on me a few times and broke my heart. I love him and wanted to be with him, so I forgave him. I found out i was pregnant and just recentl...
A. 22 February 2008: I too am sorry for your loss. I agree that your boyfriend will never change... and maybe he was at home trying to get a hold of you instead of at company social. But why did he put up a fuss, why did he not just welcome you with open arms, why did ... (read in full...)
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