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What makes men feel special?

Q.   Alright men, I like this guy alot, and things are fine, but I want to do something... special. Something thats not sappy, and too romantic, but fun, and will impress him. So what sort of things do men apperciate, in that sence. The best way t...

A.   22 October 2011: Thank you so much for your help. 3 ... (read in full...)

What makes men feel special?

Q.   Alright men, I like this guy alot, and things are fine, but I want to do something... special. Something thats not sappy, and too romantic, but fun, and will impress him. So what sort of things do men apperciate, in that sence. The best way t...

A.   18 October 2011: I have known him for only a few months. Were not "Dating" exactly. But we hang out quite a bit, drink together, watch hockey, easy stuff. We have had sex already. a few times. I dont want to bring up the relationship thing, but i want to do s... (read in full...)

Does being turned on more by girls make me lesbian???

Q.   So I'm a girl and I hang out with guys all day so they got me to watch porn and then I started to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on more to see a girl naked then seeing a guy. but I don't want to be lesbian. what does this mean if I get turned on ...

A.   17 October 2011: You could easily be bi sexual. Or just prefer the look of a woman. Im bi sexual, i enjoy both men and women, but the womans body is more attractive. Most women will agree, stright, bi, or lesbian.... (read in full...)

Help me to figure him out

Q.   I know women are supposed to be the confusing ones, the ones that dont know what they want, and are hard to read. But this man, i just cant figure out. what exactly does he want from me? ok lets call him Chuck* I started talking to chuck, ab...

A.   22 September 2011: Thanks to everyone for the advice. All of you have valid points, but love is blinding me. actually more like infatuation is blinding me. I would enjoy more then just sex with him, but i guess, from the sounds of things, its just not ment to be. ... (read in full...)

Is the vagina usually always warm or only when turned on?

Q.   Pls is the virgina always warm in temperature or is it only when the lady is sexualy excited or wet....

A.   25 August 2009: It's Always warm! All the time. Its just a hot spot of the body just like the arm pit. xD... (read in full...)

Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?

Q.   My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry ...

A.   18 July 2009: You should tell someone. If she's really your friend she will understand and forgive you. Rape is no joke and you need to tell someone or convince her to tell someone. Maybe this guy has done it before and you and your friend could help catch him, ... (read in full...)

What are these noises during sex?

Q.   hi recently when my boyfriend and i make love there are funny noises in my vagina ,like air and its so embarrassing . It never use to happen we have been together for two years now.Please help....

A.   22 April 2009: It's totally normal, and his fault. It happens to a lot of people including myself. When me and my boyfriend make love it happends sometimes. Its funny. Sex isn't really what we see in movies and stuff, just let loose and just laugh, its part of ... (read in full...)

Is it over for good or just a break?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have dating for 2 years and 7 months. He is 25, but I was his first girlfriend. We have talked about marriage in the past, but he has avoided the topic for almost a year now. He hasn't been saying "I love you" back for the last ...

A.   30 March 2009: I feel bad for you, im feeling the same way, me and my boyfriend have been dating 3 years and 2 months and if he asked me to marry him right now i would, the only difference is we havent broken up yet, and he basicly cheats on me with other girls ... (read in full...)

Would guys be repulsed by my body?

Q.   Hi Guys, This may seem stupid but I've got a problem. I'm quite a big girl well actually I'm fat and that I have accepted, but when it comes to attention from men etc I can't handle it and get all self concious as I can't get over the fact if they ...

A.   6 March 2009: Absolutely not! your beautiful. no matter how big you are. I am chubby, and i have always been self conscious of my body. But If you believe your beautiful everyone else will to all you need is confidence. Plus If you find that guy he will love ... (read in full...)

Is it right to keep her close to me even though I'm going to break up with her again? The sex is good!

Q.   Hi my name is Sam this is the second time i come for addvise on the same relationship. my previouse question was answered with appreciation. Well i,ll start by saying that there is much to say but i will keep it short. I have broken up with my girl ...

A.   6 March 2009: I know this is not what you want to hear but no. It's not ok. If you have no romantic feelings for her, your just leading her on, and as you said digging yourself a very deep hole. First of all you should tell her that your only interested in the ... (read in full...)

Should we have sex or not?

Q.   Im really young but my boyfriend and I want to have sex. we have fooled around naked but never did it for real. should we go for it or wait. [Moderator's note: Please add your real ages in case you registered with a wrong age which is the one that...

A.   1 March 2009: I Made this mistake, how long have you been dating him? what is your relationship like? If you just like him and there is no love there.. i would say wait till you find that person who gives you butterflies everytime they walk into the room, when ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to death to let him go...

Q.   Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...

A.   1 March 2009: So, things have been going good so far. I haven't brought up katie or anything in a few days and things seem to be looking up. The only thing is he still talks to her on facebook sometimes, and he tells me there just friends now and there nothing, ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to death to let him go...

Q.   Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...

A.   26 February 2009: I'll most likely, have to just go with it as you said. I wont like it but i guess it would be for the best. Maybe i'll find that i wont need him like i think i do, which is kinda scary and at the same time good becasue then i'll know i wont die ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to ravage me silly?

Q.   my bf is very wary of having sex with me but i am so in the mood to have it, i was wondering if anyone had any thoughts on how i could seduce him. i mean i want him to ravage me i want him so much. any ideas?...

A.   26 February 2009: Hello miss. I sometimes have the same problem, like i want it crazy and he's just not into it at the moment ( crazy right?) Anyway, what i usually do it attack him when hes least expecting it. like my boyfriend love video games, so someitmes when ... (read in full...)

1st blow job,what do I do?

Q.   Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weve been goin out for almost five months, after almost breaking up she hasnt been givin too much attention, and today she said how really "wanted" me, and she got rly horny, so we started thinkin about "goin somewhere", ...

A.   26 February 2009: Hey, i think the best thing to do is to ask her. she'l love that you asked instead of just assuming, and you'll find out what you want. Some girls think its gross but swallowing cum is a good option its healthy for you in most cases,there is alot ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to death to let him go...

Q.   Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...

A.   26 February 2009: hey Lamphead, i forgot to mention that. i did ask him to stop the open relationship a while ago and he agreed reluctantly but agreed and then only a week ago was he asking for a break. I seen him today only for an hour or so and he seemed as if ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to death to let him go...

Q.   Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...

A.   25 February 2009: Thanks you guys. but just to make myself clear, this isn't the only thing he does, infact he says him and katie rarely even talk anymore, which i belive. I have been in a lot of relationships, very stressful ones. i wont go into detail. but he ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to death to let him go...

Q.   Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...

A.   25 February 2009: Thanks you guys. but just to make myself clear, this isn't the only thing he does, infact he says him and katie rarely even talk anymore, which i belive. I have been in a lot of relationships, very stressful ones. i wont go into detail. but he ... (read in full...)

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