Timing of Divorce & catching a cheat (UK civil law)
Q. *OP's own title* I have posted before about the fact that my wife is yet again cheating on me with a work colleague. I tentatively suggested today as she went out to meet a friend for lunch that she looked fabulous, and asked 'Who is the lucky man?...
A. 26 April 2010: Well - today I decided to book a consultation with a divorce solicitor.
I realise that I'm just looking for validation of my choices - and given that the advice seems to be 'Time toi quit' - then it's time to stop messing about and take the init... (read in full...)
Timing of Divorce & catching a cheat (UK civil law)
Q. *OP's own title* I have posted before about the fact that my wife is yet again cheating on me with a work colleague. I tentatively suggested today as she went out to meet a friend for lunch that she looked fabulous, and asked 'Who is the lucky man?...
A. 19 April 2010: Ebony...
thanks for your answer...
I have not skimped on affection, attention, compliments, and gifts. An issue is the face we have 2 children and little opportunity to get time away from them. On the rare occasions we do get away - we have e... (read in full...)
Timing of Divorce & catching a cheat (UK civil law)
Q. *OP's own title* I have posted before about the fact that my wife is yet again cheating on me with a work colleague. I tentatively suggested today as she went out to meet a friend for lunch that she looked fabulous, and asked 'Who is the lucky man?...
A. 17 April 2010: Just to clarify - she has been swapping sex texts and intimate chats on Facebook - she arranged to see this other man the other day without telling me - and on the previous occasion / period she was seeing him - she denied it at first - but then ... (read in full...)
He's married. Is it too late?
Q. I have told an ex that I am still in love with him. We have not talked or seen eachother in 3 years. He emailed me out of nowhere to send me well wishes. So I took the opportunity to tell him how I have felt for 3 years. He told me he is engage...
A. 15 April 2010: Yes. It's too late to change the past. What you have to do is to decide what to do now. You have opened your heart to him - he knows how you feel. Either he will break it off with his fiancee - or he won't.
What you need is a clear decision... (read in full...)
Do you think once a cheat always a cheat?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 months and told he confused to me that from October 2008 - January 2009 he had an affair. He proposed to me on new years eve 2009, that means whiel he was having an affair he asked me to marry him. I had NO ...
A. 15 April 2010: On these grounds - I would say 'no'.
He had no reason to confess - yet chose to do so. He clearly wants to put the whole matter behind him and move on - I suggest you do too.
Talk it through with him - that should help - then put the matter t... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be angry about her night out in Mexico?
Q. My wife is a bilingual ed teacher here in our home state. She took a recent job-related trip to Mexico to finish a certification she needs as a teacher in multiple languages. While there, she and her coworkers also had time to go out drinking and ...
A. 15 April 2010: This sounds like good old fashioned jealousy. This is normal - and there is nothing wrong with that.
However - you have to consider:
1. Would she feel the same way if roles were reversed?
2. Is it just that you feel put out because she had ... (read in full...)
Cheating wife problem. The trust is gone so what should I do - short and long term?
Q. I have written before, when my wife and I were going through a difficult time, and some of the answers and advice were really useful. This is my situation now: we have been married for nearly 16 years, we have 2 daughters, aged 10 and 14. Our ...
A. 13 April 2010: Thanks Guys and Gal(s). I had pretty much came to the same conclusion, and that in itself was quite liberating. Watch this space... I'll let you know how it goes. From past experience, she suffers a serious downturn in mood from Easter, ... (read in full...)
Alternatives to sex to fulfill our sexual desires, any suggestions?
Q. hi. i'm 18 and my bf is also 18.. well, we dont want to lose virginity before marriage...we are gonna marry after 6 years,but right now we wanna try new stuff out..so what are the things apart from kissing that we can do so as to not cross the limit ...
A. 1 November 2008: Having been there - here is a list:
mutual masturbation
masturabting while the other watches/caresses
oral sex
'dry humping' (I hate the term - but you get the idea..) using thighs/buttocks/breasts - even armpits...
abstinence
It a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend, his colleague and I had a threesome, now I'm hyperworried about the time he spends at work!...
Q. hi,went on a business trip with my boyfriend of 2 years,he always talked about the young girl at work and it bothered me,this was the second time i met her ,her and i became drunk and began kissing which later ended up in bed,we did nothing more ...
A. 1 November 2008: Honesty is the key to this.
Tell him how you feel - and ask him to be honest about his intentions and his feelings for you.
Ask yourself (and him) - do you want an open relationship?
Discuss it - and if your answers are very different - the... (read in full...)
I don't want to go out with her and realise I don't like her!
Q. Hello Ive recently started to like this girl and i have only started to realise this when we were apart on half term from school. Ive missed her and havent been able to go to sleep because ive been thinking about her. Now as quickly as that ...
A. 1 November 2008: Well - are you saying that you find her physically attractive but you find her personality a bit lacking? It sounds like as you've thought about the person herself you find less to like. This is normal - I could wheel out all sorts of cliches l... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want to have sex and dismisses all my suggestions!
Q. My wife has never been greatly interested in sex. Now, after 13 years of marriage and her suffering a bout of depression and flirting with a work colleague, she tells me she is sexually frustrated - doesn't want to have sex with me - but wants to ...
A. 1 November 2008: Thanks for the advice so far guys and gals - all good stuff, and I would like to take a moment to reply to each in turn...
1) Mamma Mia - I know my wife really well - we have/had a solid friendship - to the point I know what she is thinking... (read in full...)
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