Is it just because I'm a teenager?
Q. Is it just because I'm a teenager? I'm 15 and I feel very bad about myself. I'm chubby and hate my face, I've been told I am ugly and fat by boys and just started believing them... should I? My mom always tells me to ignore them but I just can't. ...
A. 16 April 2009: Coming from a guy, confidence is really sexy in a girl. That's what I think at least. If you really are sensitive about your body though, just eat less junk food and excercise a bit. Exercise makes people feel better about themselves and will ... (read in full...)
Am I as gay as I thought?
Q. For the past year I have known, (or at least thought) that I am gay. I am not attracted to women physically, nor have I ever been. But I am still yet to find a boy that I love. I have fallen in love with girls, but not with boys, but am sexually ...
A. 19 January 2009: I do feel attracted to boys, get aroused and everything, I just prefer relationships with females, though I am not attracted to them(females).... (read in full...)
Am I just going thrugh a "gay" phase?
Q. I am pretty sure that I am gay and I'im 14 but I've been slowly getting stronger feelings about women so does that mean that I'm just going through a gay phase?...
A. 16 January 2009: I'm going through one of these right now. Someone told me that it could be a phase, but just remember that bisexuality is an option. But remember that only you can accurately decide your sexuality, because no one else exactly knows what you are ... (read in full...)
My Mom thinks it'll be eaiser to break up and stay friends, but it's not that easy!
Q. I am 13, and am obviously unsure of my sexuality and who i like etc etc. but i do have a girlfriend. She has had girlfriends before and is more serious than i am, and everything has been fine until recently when my mum found out. My mum is not ...
A. 1 December 2008: I'm also gay. If you really love this person isn't a little persecution worth it. It sounds like your mother loves you and only wants the best for you, but she doesn't understand what it is like to be gay. also, if you have someone to love, then ... (read in full...)
I am set in chains...
Q. Sorry if I bother you by this, but I've no one to go to right now. I am Set in Chains. My dad wants me to like working in his restaurant, he just does not see that I hate everything about it, I hate working with him, don't get me wrong, I love my ...
A. 1 December 2008: Well he might be a little upset at first but do you want to wake up for the rest of the blank # of years hating your job and life. Also he is your dad. I'm sure he'll respect your choice and get over it. After all, he probably just wants what is ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?
Q. well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im ...
A. 8 September 2008: Emily is right. Unless you are in a seriouse relationship there is no need to tell her. You wouldn't tell your mom that you are straight would you. I also think that your mom would have the respect for you and your father to keep it a secret. I ... (read in full...)
Gay, not out yet, and in love with a straight guy, don't want to harm his reputation or, face rejection from my friends, please help??
Q. I am thirteen years old and I am in love with a boy who I am almost positive is not gay. I want him so badly but to get him I would have to come out, which would mean certain rejection from "freinds" I am sure this is not a phase because I have ...
A. 16 July 2008: Thanks peeps. I guess you are right. Mabey there will be somone else. I should just enjoy the freindship.... (read in full...)
Why is my gay friend's boyfriend acting so weird?
Q. Hi, my best male friend who is gay (I'm straight female) has been going out with his boyfriend for a year. Alot of our friends don't like this boyfriend . Though he's pushed alot of my friend's friends away, he only seems to like me. I do find him ...
A. 15 July 2008: The first time he was drunk, and people act realllly weird when they are drunk. The second time you told him not to come with u. He already knows he's not wanted, so how would he really have a good time with people who don't really want him there. ... (read in full...)
Slept with a few girls but too scared to go to the clinic for a check?
Q. I've slept with a few girls, but too scared to go to clinic what should i do?...
A. 15 July 2008: it is there job to check. just go. There is nothing to be afraid of. It would be much worse not to go. what if you do have somthing. They might cacth it early and you'll be fine. Also Im pretty sure this stuff is confidential. ... (read in full...)
My mate has cut contact with me completely since he has a new girlfriend, should I give up contacting him?
Q. Right, this is probably gonna be a long one I'm afraid so bear with me. I met my "mate" at the end of 2006 on a 12 wk course I took and we found became close to best friends. We were both into the same music, played guitar etc and we'd hang out tw...
A. 15 July 2008: Just move on with him. If he is really ur freind he would have been contacting you! If he does talk to you he better have a really good explenation to why he is avoiding you. ... (read in full...)
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