What does he want? He knows I have a boyfriend and I'm on the verge of breaking up...
Q. I'm in uni, living in halls. There's a guy who I have got to know over the past month. Every night we lay on his bed for three hours and just talk and talk. I'm so comfortable with him. We're not touchy-feely, although he will occassio...
A. 12 April 2006: Hi I would suggest splitting up with your boyfriend first, if there really is no hope left. It sounds like this 'friend' you have has good moral standards, so many guys would want to jump straight into bed with you and forget about you the next day... (read in full...)
I need to let go of my relationship with my boyfriend, but I can't imagine how to do it...
Q. I don’t why, but I think most of my problem comes from the fact that I cant let go. I been with my boyfriend for seven months now, and I believe I found someone else, which connect with far more than I would have thought. I find myself unable t...
A. 12 April 2006: I sympathise with your situation and would personally be heartbroken if my girlfriend did the same thing. The first thing to do is to sit down and ask yourself if you love him. Secondly, why are there connection problems there? What could he do to ... (read in full...)
I just don't think that "spark" is there anymore, what can I do?
Q. When I first met my G/F she was all over me: sweet messages, lots of loving notes, nick names, all of that. It's now three months later and although we are still together, all of that has disappeared. We communicate and see each other as much as ...
A. 5 April 2006: I'm in a very similar boat to you myself. The only thing to do, (and don't be worried about doing this otherwise it will start to eat you up like it did me) is sit her down one day/evening and to have a mature, honest chat with her expressing your ... (read in full...)
How do I tell if he's interested? And if he is, what do I say?
Q. Ok, I'm sooo confused about the signals I'm getting from this guy that I have a crush on. So I could use any advice at this point. In one of my college classes I noticed a really cute guy about a month ago. We would glance at each other during ...
A. 11 November 2005: It seems to me that the guy is just as nervous as you, which means that he more-than-likely feels the same way. I, myself am an extremely shy individual and have had the same problems throughout my life, more often than not missing out and feeling ... (read in full...)
Does the one who had the first crush automatically have "dating rights"?
Q. I'm seventeen, and I'm co-stage-managing a play with a great guy. I met him at the start of the play, and I currently have a huge crush on him. However, a close friend is the lead, and she's also got a crush on him. She's constantly flirting with ...
A. 11 November 2005: I fully understand what you are going through. Something similar happened to me recently when a girl I developed a huge crush on, and, I think she liked me too but also had her eye on two other guys, ended up with one of the others, and all because ... (read in full...)
After work, we hung out and really connected... or so I thought...
Q. I work in the salon of a store and this guy that I hung out with twice works in the clothing part of the store. We hung out one night and we made out and he told me I was so gorgeous, and all this stuff how he wanted me so bad. We hung out until ...
A. 14 October 2005: It would seem to me that he has the same problem as many guys. He probably does love you but when he's at work, he feels that he has to act in a way where he won't lose the respect of his workmates by acting too soppy around you, because he will be ... (read in full...)
What's winking about?
Q. What does winking mean? I got winked at by a really cute guy and I kind of liked him back, but then I found out the next day he was married!! Another guy I know is married and he winks at me all the time, sometimes slowly and when no one else is ...
A. 14 October 2005: Winking is usually a sign that someone likes the look of you. Sometimes it's just a harmless flirtation but this second guy who is married and winks at you more slowly may be looking to play around and is overstepping the mark.
It is your cho... (read in full...)
She broke it off with the other guy to be with me, but then he sweet-talked her back!
Q. There's this girl that I met at work about a month ago. We started out as friends because she was "talking" to this other guy who is a loser...I'm not just saying that, he is anyways.... So we have been talking a lot and we have so much in common. ...
A. 4 October 2005: It seems to me that you have the right idea. Bide your time but you must treat her in a way that she knows you haven't given up on her. I imagine that it's you she really wants to be with but find myself questioning why, after such a 'perfect' date ... (read in full...)
I keep losing my erection halfway through sex!
Q. I'm 19 years old. I can get an erection on my own perfectly, and with girls sometimes too through oral sex, or just teasing. But sometimes when I'm having sex I lose my erection half way through it. It happens a lot of times and it's really a...
A. 3 October 2005: I think what is happening here is that before the actual act of sex itself, you are billing it up as something more than it actually turns out to be when you engage in the act and thus lose interest or let your mind wander during the act. The result ... (read in full...)
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