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writes:What does winking mean?I got winked at by a really cute guy and I kind of liked him back, but then I found out the next day he was married!!Another guy I know is married and he winks at me all the time, sometimes slowly and when no one else is winking.I'm really confused, am I the only one that thinks this is inappropriate? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): I have the same problem. There was this male co-worker that I was friendly with. He would often make eye contact, wink & smile. Never went out on a date with him or winked back. He's married. Now he says I sexually harassed him. Is he feeling guilty and scared? I'm confused. I thought he was flirting around. Sure I smiled. I like attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): Winking is flirty..doesnt mean that it actually means something or that there is something behide the reason for winking.
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reader, pops +, writes (14 October 2005):
Winking can mean alot of things, from merely " Hi!", to " See you later !", or " this is your cue ". If you want to know what the men mean when they wink at you, ask them. At the very least, a wink means you have caught his " eye" or visual attention, and he likes what he sees. It is always a compliment to you, so take it graciously, smile, and when appropriate, wink back! That will drive him Nuts!
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reader, Jimmy +, writes (14 October 2005):
Winking is usually a sign that someone likes the look of you. Sometimes it's just a harmless flirtation but this second guy who is married and winks at you more slowly may be looking to play around and is overstepping the mark.
It is your choice how to react to this but I wouldn't be giving out signals that you like him unless you want him to come on stronger to you. From what I've seen, extra marital affairs always end in tears and usually leave people very hurt and bitter, and you most certainly will be. If you're single, there are plenty of single guys out there who I'm sure you'd have no problem getting together with.
Hope this helps,
Best, Jimmy
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