Is the 5-years gap too much between us? Is it too soon for us to have sex?
Q. I am a 15 year old teenage girl who is in a loving relationship with a guy who is 20. I will be 16 in 3 months and he will be 21 next month. We really want to have sex but I don't know if it's too soon and if he is too old for me? ...
A. 16 September 2006: I understand you writing into cupid because this is a really big thing im 16 and have recentley had sex 4 the 1st time it was ok, i truly loved this person aswell but we have broke up now i realise it wasnt meant 2 be i sort of regret it to be ... (read in full...)
He says he wants to love me, but doesnt know how to!!!
Q. I love my boyfriend very much. we live in neighbouring countries. we have been dating for 4 months now. I have made some mistakes while with him and we have talked about it and we decided to move on.The problem now is everytime we are chatting he ...
A. 14 September 2006: If you loved him so much you would let him go and move on all he is going to ever do is keep putting you down with all these sarcy comments etc but that is the point of relationships you have to make mistakes so you can learn from them and if you ... (read in full...)
What is he thinking???
Q. What is he really thinking? I've been with my boyfriend for the past 7 years. We're both in our late 20s and I thought we were very happy together and he was the one. However, he dropped a bombshell on me a couple of weeks ago and told me that he ...
A. 14 September 2006: theres one thing thats happend here the spark has completely gone,if you find it that hard to be friends with him then get him out of your life completely until you have healed then consider a friendship but right now its over and yes its going to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was sending naked pictures to another on the internet now its a big joke to everyone...
Q. About 9 months ago i was diagnosed with depression and really needed my boyfriends support. he was still living at home and to my horror i discovered he had been sending naked pictures of himself to another girl via the internet. despite it, i ...
A. 14 September 2006: You dont need him my heart really goes out to you, i feel very depressed but i havent been diagnosed its awful. your boyfriend is not helping the situation, you need people around you that care, to be honest you dont even need him the only way you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend works in the same company as a guy I dated and now its bothering me...
Q. hi everyone. i've been with my bf a while now . i've just come to realise that he works for the same agency as another man i met up with for a few dates a few years ago. This other man wasn't serious so the relationship fizzled out quickly. i love ...
A. 14 September 2006: If this problem is really bothering you then you should tell him. you should be able to talk to each other about anything lovers arent just lovers there also your best friends who you can confide in no matter what. You are planning to be wed so ... (read in full...)
We had a couple of dates and he was always responsive, but after our last date he hasnt contacted me!
Q. Hello, I have been on a couple of dates with a guy and really like him. However after our last date which was only last night he hasn't sent me a text. I have sent him one and had no response. He is usually quite responsive and keen. We had a ...
A. 14 September 2006: Dont worry this is completely normal for you 2 be paranoid he will contact you, you just have to wait stop calling him the last thing a man wants is a clingy partner your only dateing take it slowly you have made an effort and now its his turn it ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriends best friend have a crush on me ??
Q. Warning: long, drawn out question(s)! I'm in kind of a funny situation right now... My boyfriend has moved away for a short period. His best friend just moved back to town.. When we all lived in the same state, we'd all hang out together, go shopp...
A. 14 September 2006: i think you should warn him off its not about the fact that he is almost the only friend you have got you need to do it, it will also help with future problems. there are going to be so many situations like these for you in the future and so you ... (read in full...)
I already told him I was falling for him, we went out last night and hes totally distant!! What can I do ?
Q. Hi there, Im 31 years of age and in love with my best male mate. Thing is im really scared I have screwed things up with him. Nearly two weeks ago I told him I was falling in love with him, but he made no comment as to what he thought to me ...
A. 14 September 2006: I can understand this must be really hard for you right now but you were quite right to express your feelings to him but things might not be the same again unless you take action and reassure him about hes feelings towards you and let him no its ok ... (read in full...)
His ex will not leave us alone, its really upsetting me, all I want to do his make him happy!!
Q. Please help me, I am 22 years old and am seeing a man that is 8 years my senior. He has four kids and an ex that just wont leave us alone. I have to put up with her constant threats and this is really getting me down. But most of all whats rea...
A. 14 September 2006: personally i think you should leave him he is the man in this relationship and should be comforting and listening to you when you cry which im sure you would do the same for him. there is just no love in this relationship at all. i even think he ... (read in full...)
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