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writes: hi everyone. i've been with my bf a while now . i've just come to realise that he works for the same agency as another man i met up with for a few dates a few years ago. This other man wasn't serious so the relationship fizzled out quickly. i love my bf and we want to get married but its constantly on my mind whether i should tell him about this other man. nothing really serious happened but i still feel guilty as this other man did try something i didnt want to do but i told him to leave and never saw him again. They work in different areas of the country but it has really played on my mind recently. what do you think? please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, jessi +, writes (14 September 2006):
If this problem is really bothering you then you should tell him. you should be able to talk to each other about anything lovers arent just lovers there also your best friends who you can confide in no matter what. You are planning to be wed so dont hold back tell him and im sure he will understand. goodluckxxxxxxxx
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (13 September 2006):
I don't think that you have anything to worry about as they work in different parts of the country and it is in your past. Its not like you cheated with the guy or something. I think your worried about nothing. If you are that worried, what would it hurt to tell him? You didn't do anything wrong. Good Luck.
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