I can't put the ring back on until we worth things out!
Q. I am reposting w/more recent info in hopes of getting an answer.No replies last time. I broke off my engagement but I am having second thoughts after seeing him again.? After a terrible month of really bad communication and him blowing up and d...
A. 28 September 2010: Thank you everyone. I appreciate your insight and willingness to share. You are right on about so much of this and have confirmed a lot of what I have been feeling.... (read in full...)
Pathetic cheater (posters own title)
Q. Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...
A. 27 September 2010: Regardless of whether he is/you are/anyone is involved in a church, in my view the principle that should be applied here is "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." If someone, especially a friend or relative knew your spouse were ... (read in full...)
Can online romance be real?
Q. Hi everybody. I just want to ask you guys question. Do you guys believe in online love? I met this guy who have same birthday,same satuition about pass relationship and almost everything are same.We chat on the internet for couple times. Yesterday ...
A. 28 October 2009: Please, please be careful. You say you have only talked a few times and he loves and is in love with you? He also just happens to have the same birthday, same situation as you? I don't mean to be cynical, but it is possible that he has said all ... (read in full...)
What am I going to do all weekend while he's having a bachelor party?
Q. hello all i dont know what to do well you see getting married in 2weeks and hubby us having a weekend getaway batchelors party. and i dont like the idea of having strippers ect.. dancing naked and entertaining him. i dont know if i want party and...
A. 26 October 2009: Actually, a bachelor weekend doesn't bother me, but the way you say he speaks to you and treats you does.
People treat us the way they do because we let them. Sounds simple, right? It's not. After ten years you have a routine and it seems to incl... (read in full...)
Perspective anyone?
Q. I really need some perspective. My bf and I are at college. He will be graduating in a few months and I will have another semester after that. We go to school near each other but this year we live pretty much at my place. He has a place at his ...
A. 26 October 2009: Thanks for the reality check. It really helped so much. I have always encouraged him to have friends but he has a hard time following through. He has let so many potentially awesome friendships slip away. A lot of his inability to have close ... (read in full...)
Now that we are back together, he's not showing me love and respect. Any advice?
Q. My boyfriend and I just got back together after taking a break for a few weeks. I initiated the break because I just wasn't feeling respected or appreciated. He would forget to call me, not show up for a date and then have some lame excuse, saying ...
A. 6 July 2009: Thanks. I know it seems easy to just say it's over. I have given him a lot more latitude than I would another guy because of the home he came from. We have known each other since were were in grade school. He was a shy and sweet person who had a ... (read in full...)
I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!
Q. I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...
A. 29 June 2009: Thanks for the thoughtful answers. What I don't get is that if it is truly that he can't be bothered, why didn't he just leave it alone when I asked for the break? You would think he would think he was home free.
If he sees me as demanding and ... (read in full...)
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