My husband won't stop spending, despite our debts
Q. hey everybody i have a question why are men so difficult? my husband wont stop spending money! hes overseas and we have all these bills that he had before we got married and i now have bills because i got behind on some of my things tryin to pay his ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear soliderswife06,
Wow! All I could suggest is that if your husband refuses to take control and accept responsibility, I would hope you to have access to the account your husband is using and take out what you need to use for paying your deb... (read in full...)
We're in love but her step dad doesn't like me
Q. I'm in a similar situation. I love my 32 year old cousin's daughter. i didn't even know my 32 year old cousin was my cousin. Well my cousin's daughter is my age and she loves me too, we love each other so much. I don't know what to do my parents ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear anonymous,
Not knowing too much of your situation I can only guess that maybe her step father doesn't so much dislike you but maybe the situation of being so close in relation. Either way if you are both in love then I can only suggest ... (read in full...)
Talks of moving in, but I think my GF loves me more than I love her! Whats the right thing to do here?
Q. Hi My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 and 1/2 years now. We are each others first and only sexual partner and its the first serious relationship either of us has ever had. We do not live together - we are still living at home w...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear foamybob,
With sincerity I wouldn't advise moving in with someone if it doesn't feel right and exciting to you. I understand why and how you wouldn't wish to hurt her but in the long run it would seem if you move in together you may end up h... (read in full...)
My mate saw my boyfriend going into a strip club 4 times over the last fortnight!!! When questioned about it, he told me to "F*** off!" What am I to do and think?
Q. A friend told me she'd seen my boyfriend go to a male strip club 4 times over the last fortnight. I asked her if she was lying, but she said she was working a late-night shift (she's an airport taxi driver) and had seen him. She said she couldn'...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear Laura,
Just by his reaction you need to focus on you and not him. Love deserves better. You do not deserve for anyone to speak to you that way, it is degrading and can slowly take away any confidence you have. I understand when you are ... (read in full...)
My husband was seeing prostitutes while I was pregnant, has been searching for women to date online and is always bad tempered since the birth of my baby. Should I leave him?
Q. Hello, I have been married for 4 years, and together with my husband for the past 7, and I gave birth to our baby boy last September. My husband has been unable or unwilling to have sex with me for the past 3 years on and off, and since I was 8 we...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear anonymous,
There is a high possibility that if you leave your husband he will do most things to get you back. Please don't be scared of being alone, you will not find all you need by keeping yourself in a theoretical safety box. Whether ... (read in full...)
In the past, my husband told me that he loved me... that he never loved me... and now he's saying that he only said it because he was down! He really hurt me. Am I doing the right thing in leaving him?
Q. I need advice. I have been married for 12 years and have two children. About 3 years into our marriage my husband said he didn't love me anymore. This wasn't really dealt with at the time and was brushed under the carpet. About 3 years later he said ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear anonymous,
As you know a decison like this cannot be made lightly. Not just because you have children together but because you have been together for so long. Sometimes in long term relationships we can have periods of time of not liking o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me, then I found out I was pregnant. He threatened me alot and when the baby was born she was stillborn. Should I send him a picture of what we made together?
Q. My ex and I have been separated for the past 8 months (he initiated it after 5 years together). When we split I discovered I was 5 wks pregnant. He didnt want me to carry on with the pregnancy and told me to abort. I told him where to get off and ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear anonymous,
Firstly, I am sorry for your loss. In answer to your question, it may be better to calm things down between you and come to peaceful circumstances, giving him the option of whether he would like to see a photo. If you send it ... (read in full...)
Sex issues... is this natural?
Q. Earlier this evening my boyfriend and I had sex he stopped and asked me what that was and i looked down and there was white clumpy cum like leaking out of me... now he didn't orgasm and i think i did,is this normal or is something wrong with me?...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear anonymous,
Discharge of white coloration is normal, even clumpy. If you are concerned or feeling any dis-comfort it would be adviseable to see your doctor or your nearest female clinic, to ensure everything is as it should be.
With Wa... (read in full...)
The guy I love is joining the military!!
Q. I'm in love with a guy at school, nad I know he likes me back by the way he acts. But yesterday I found out he was deciding to do all his 10th grade work to go to 11th grade this year, so he could graduate to go in list for the military! I mean, I ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear anonymous,
It seems you are in love with a hard working guy with a big heart. If I may say that it would seem very unlikely for him to be making such big decisions based upon his feelings about a possible relationship. Maybe it would be... (read in full...)
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