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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm in love with a guy at school, nad I know he likes me back by the way he acts. But yesterday I found out he was deciding to do all his 10th grade work to go to 11th grade this year, so he could graduate to go in list for the military! I mean, I don't think it's a bad thing, but why would he want to go fight at such a young age? But also there is somewhat of an age gap between us, and I don't mean to all sappy but, um, do you think he could also be doing this because he doesn't want to see me with someone? I'm very confused!
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reader, Jenii +, writes (21 June 2007):
Dear anonymous,
It seems you are in love with a hard working guy with a big heart. If I may say that it would seem very unlikely for him to be making such big decisions based upon his feelings about a possible relationship. Maybe it would be a good idea to approach him as a friend and chat about his feelings and ideas about the military. This way you would be able to see first hand more about his thoughts and ideas. You never know through a great friendship could gain a great romance.
With Kind Wishes
Jenii
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