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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:A friend told me she'd seen my boyfriend go to a male strip club 4 times over the last fortnight.I asked her if she was lying, but she said she was working a late-night shift (she's an airport taxi driver) and had seen him. She said she couldn't confront him, as she was on duty, but she confirmed it definitely was him. She said it was a strip club that had male strippers, and that it was notorious for its riotous hen nights. She also told me she can't understand why a group of men would want to go and watch other men strip off.He apparently went in with two other guys, so I was told.I confronted him about it, and he said "F*** off!! what I do when you're not around is none of your business!"I asked him if he was gay, but he said he wasn't, and I asked if his friends were, and he said no. He said it was his mate Jeff's idea. I just can't understand why a group of straight men would go and see male strippers.We live together, so what he did was wrong wasn't it?thanks, Laura
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reader, Jenii  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Dear Laura,
Just by his reaction you need to focus on you and not him. Love deserves better. You do not deserve for anyone to speak to you that way, it is degrading and can slowly take away any confidence you have. I understand when you are in a relationship that you feel that you must be there through anything but ask yourself this. Do you want the man you want to spend the rest of your life with to treat you like his special and only lover and friend? Don't settle for second best because you are worth the best.
Whether he is gay or not is irrelevent, what is relevent is a good honest close relationship.
With Sincere Wishes
Jenii
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): You have embarrassed him. His reaction was too strong and I don't understand why he didn't tell you that he was going...four times. You don't think he's working there do you? I don't think he and all his mates have decided they are gay. Too much of a coincidence. If straight men went once it would be ok, out of curiosity. But to go out of curiousity four times does not compute. If it is used on riotous hen nights perhaps his friends were hoping to pick up hens who were in a frenzy of sexual desire having watched the strippers....
Ask your friend to call you if he goes again and get yourself over there at once.
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