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It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live.

Time is a sort of river of passing events, and strong is its current; no sooner is a thing brought to sight than it is swept by and another takes its place, and this too will be swept away.

Could I get into trouble seeing him if my parents find out?

Q.   ok well i just moved back in to my parents house n im 17 im currently seeing this 19 year old without my parents knowing. could i get in trouble for being with him if my parents find out. plus he says he wants a baby buti dnt know if he wld really ...

A.   11 February 2011: the 2 year age difference isn't bad, tho it is considered illegal. I know my parents would have been upset too And don't give into him wanting a baby! would you be able to support it? A baby is permanent. For the rest of you life you will have th... (read in full...)

Tall Woman Syndrome? Mommy complex?

Q.   Here's one for the tall ladies, 5'10+. Please explain the tall-woman-syndrome and the "mommy" complex. Is it true that taller women feel like a mom standing beside a shorter guy? What exactly is the difference in inches that makes a taller w...

A.   11 February 2011: Girls grow up influenced by media and social customs that men should be taller than them, they are taught this attractive...so in my opinion this is the main reason why women tend not to date shorter men. And it is difficult to go against social ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents that I masturbate???

Q.   I am 13, and I masturbate. No one knows about it and I don't know what to do about it. How do I tell my parents??? Should I tell my parents??? ...

A.   22 January 2011:  it's normal for everyone to masturbate, especially teenage boys. There's no need to tell them because they know that sooner or later you'll start. Just don't get caught in action, cause that will be very awkward :p or if u look at porn, erase the ... (read in full...)

Creative advice needed!

Q.   I am in need of some help from those who are creative. I have an on going "battle" with my gf for doing little things for each other that are out of the ordinary. so I am looking for self made crafts or creative ways to tell her how im thinking. ...

A.   22 January 2011: speaking of notes... I got a medium red leather box and filled it with a 100 heart shaped notes for a boyfriend for valentines so he could open one each day. The notes said things that i liked about him, love poems, memories, song lyrics, love ... (read in full...)

I do not wish to attend my mother in law's funeral if husband's "Friend" will be there

Q.   Very long and involved post so thank you very much in advance for reading. I have been married for a year but for various reasons my husband and I do not live together. This is mainly because I have a house from my previous marriage that my...

A.   21 January 2011: Even though you don't like the woman, I think you should still go to support your husband--it's his mother. Perhaps even being there for him may help the two of you connect and begin to resolve relational problems. Now about having your husband ... (read in full...)

He wants to have a baby and forced me to have unprotected sex

Q.   hello, im writing here because i have a problem with my boyfriend. i am about to turn 16 in a few weeks and he will be 20 in a few months. everything started off great,we`ve been together 4 months, but last night we were talking about our futures ...

A.   7 March 2010: You have your whole life to live..And he's already trying to control you. Like others have said, u need to get the morning after pill. maybe checked for STD's/ STI's?? u just need to leave while u can, even though u may be really attached. He doe... (read in full...)

Sexually frustrated virgin!

Q.   Sorry this is so long but I really need help! (and to vent!) I am a healthy, slim, attractive girl in her mid twenties. I have been with my fiance for two years now and everything is great but the only problem is that he will not have sex with me...

A.   7 March 2010: Has he ever mentioned that he wants to have sex with you after u r married? Its natural to want that physical bond to complement the love u have for him... It will be hard to be a married couple if u r sexually frustrated; it will just fuel fights ... (read in full...)

I just discovered my husband is cheating on me...

Q.   I just discovered my husband is cheaing on me. I dont know what to do. I am 5 and a half months pregnant with twins.......

A.   7 February 2010: hmm...I'm very sorry :( Do you know how long he has been cheating? And is there more than sex going on between your husband and this woman? Because if there is an emotional bond, it will be very difficult to continue your relationship. Yo... (read in full...)

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

Q.   I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...

A.   29 April 2009: but it wasn't with friends....they had not been over any for nearly 2wks, and porn stuff was on it for everyday of the week for the whole previous week. i don't why you're telling me not to overreact before i get the facts--I just asked for h... (read in full...)

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

Q.   I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...

A.   28 April 2009: perhaps i should not have responded like such but i found that answer to be insulting not only to women, but also men... (read in full...)

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

Q.   I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...

A.   28 April 2009:  in response to anonymous (4/27/09): i am not "super sensitive" to porn. i'm "sensitive" about the possibility of him actually engaging with other live women, which is called cybersex, not porn. and what does women and materialism have... (read in full...)

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

Q.   I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...

A.   27 April 2009: and thank you all for your advice and support, i wasn't expecting the amount of responses! everyone of you said something helpful and i greatly appreciate it i hope i did the right thing though.............. jamie xoxo ... (read in full...)

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

Q.   I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The probl...

A.   27 April 2009: well i asked him, or rather i tried. he said the cybersex thing is just a pop-up when he clicks on certain things. he told me not worry and that he only views porn with his friends now and then. Then i told him it was his 1# thing on his history.. ... (read in full...)

I had sex with my best friend....am I a lesbian? I love her so much!

Q.   hello, im really confused... i am 17, and i am in love with my best friend who is a girl also... she is so pretty smart and makes me laugh constantly... i get excited when she texts me and i melt when she talks to me... we have kissed on numerous ...

A.   26 April 2009: If you don't think youre a lesbian, than youre probably not. From what i have learned in my psychology and communication classes, its common for people to experiment and have mixed feelings about sexuality b/c of hormones. i would consider you ... (read in full...)

Raped -- what can I do?

Q.   I have a rather strange question. I am pretty sure I was raped. I question it becasue I don't think I can do much about it. I knew this guy since forever..he gave me a ride home, and next I know we are out in the woods and he parks the truck. Next, ...

A.   26 April 2009: i'm so sorry. i think you should go to the police. i sort of understand how you feel. a previous boyfriend of mine physically forced my to do things against my will, i cried and pleaded for him to stop but...no use i didn't do anything, but wish... (read in full...)

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