Changes in clitoral hood size - advice please!
Q. I used to have an extremely small clitoral hood and after having just one sex partner, it's enlarged to about 2X the size! Is this normal and how do I get it to shrink? I actually feel pretty self-conscious about it......
A. 8 July 2009: I wouldn't know but maybe if you it up on google or the like, also ask you OBG/YN about it, they are discret and I don't think there are many questions that a person can ask that they haven't heard before, it could just be that you need a lotion, ... (read in full...)
Am I a weirdo?
Q. heeey ! right well i would just like to ask people am i a weido for not having a boyfreind or have kissed anyone in my whole life i know i sound like a proppa geek ahah ! but if i could just have you feedback and not rude comments i am sick of the...
A. 8 July 2009: Sweetie, you are not a geek you young don't worry about it, it will come in it's time when it's meant to, for now kick back and relax trust me on this dating and all the stuff that comes with it can be such a headache.
I currently am taking t... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend really doesn't care about me.
Q. i feel like my boyfriend doesn't really care about me. he says he loves me everyday but then his actions seem to say otherwise. now we're on summer break and we had been in diff countries so we hadnt seen each other in a few weeks and it always ...
A. 8 July 2009: I was recently in the same place you are right now. My now ex was/is a man that know all the right things to say like how much he loved me, adorded me, never could find anyone better than me. However, he never called except when driving from poi... (read in full...)
I know my ex-boyfriend likes me, and I am going to wait for him to be ready to date again, but should I countinue to kiss him and hang out with him alone?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I have been getting closer lately. Hanging out a lot and talking again. Yesterday before he was going to pick me up to go to the pool with him, he texted me this..."I am having mixed feelings on what to do. Like I want to date ...
A. 8 July 2009: You guys broke up for a reason. I know it seems harsh but from my point of view he's using as the fall back girl. I don't know how long you were broken up but the fact is he got over you and was with someone for three months. I personal am a pe... (read in full...)
Possible to get STD's from a person without sexual experiences?
Q. i'm going to give my boyfriend a blow job, he hasn't had any sexual intercourse or experience and i know for a fact this is true. but can i still catch an sti? please help a.s.a.p...
A. 8 July 2009: Simple answer, yes. My sister happens to be in the medical field so I have heard many a comment on oral STD's. Ironically it seems that it's a fact of life, anyone or thing (animals...bugs) can get an STD through sexual contact. Be safe which means ... (read in full...)
I want to propose to her, Harry Potter style, but how?
Q. Hi! My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now (five years), since she was 19 and I was 21. And I just want to know of a nice, decent place I can propose to her at. We're both Americans still living in America with the common goal of m...
A. 8 July 2009: First off I'd like to say thank you for knowing asking someone to marry you in a cinema is not the most romantic place.
I wonder if maybe you had thought of the first place you went out on a date together, or any place that has placed some imp... (read in full...)
My husband is schizophrenic, I'm depressed. How can I stop cheating?
Q. I have a problem and I need help with this. I have been married for over 8 years and for 7 years, everything was pretty good - no marriage is perfect, but it was good enough that I was not really even thinking about flirting with danger or entertai...
A. 27 July 2008: It is a horrible situation you found yourself in. And I don't think or believe that you are the first or that last person in a similar situation to do the same thing.
The things you can consider to help you would be:
1) Find if there are any su... (read in full...)
I love my wife, but erection problems and lower sex drive are hurting our marriage.
Q. i'm having a serious crisis ,in my mariage,and I don't know where to go from here. I really need some suggestion, as I never been so stuck in my whole life,, I'm in my mid 40 es, and around 3 years ago I developed an erection problem. slowly my sex ...
A. 27 July 2008: It might be a problem related to diet, what you might consider is adding a little zynic to your diet. If you have low zyinc levels it can effect a person's sex drive.
Also consider possible alergies also food related.
I hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
Confused, I have a girlfriend, but attracted to certain guys, am I gay?
Q. Today I was at a friends house for his pool party, we were messing around and jumping in the pool and stuff and he dived, and his swim trunks came off. Then I jumped in after him(w/ goggles) and then everybody else. Nobody payed any attention to it ...
A. 7 July 2008: Okay take a deep breath.
At you age it is normal to notice oter people. Noticng another guys trucks came off doesn't make you gay. The fact that you like girls and guys, well the PC term is bisexual :)
But word of adivce not think about it t... (read in full...)
How can I forget my past and learn to trust my girlfriend?
Q. So my problem is like this.. I grew up in a very abusive family. and while growing up alot happened to break my trust. Now im in a relationship and its very hard because i know that she isnt doing anything wrong like cheating but i feel like i ...
A. 7 July 2008: In a perfect world no one would need to try and forget a painful past. However, we live in a world were a lot of people have to live in abusive homes. I'm sorry to say this but can never forget your past. Nevertheless, you can learn to move on... (read in full...)
Having sex with my husband, after having our baby is painful, why, is there anything I can do??
Q. when i have sex with my husband it hurts when he puts it in it din't before i got pregnant once i had my baby and began having sex its hurts and its getting worst. why and what can i do...
A. 7 July 2008: First and foremost you must tell your husband. It my seem like you would rather die but he must know if you are in pain.
Secondly if you have recently had a baby there is a more than good chance that you have not fully healed yet. You should g... (read in full...)
I could be in love with someone else. Should I stay with my boyfriend?
Q. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years. I'm 17 now and he's 18.. So obviously we've been together most of our teen years. He's amazing, he truly is the kind of guy you only dream of finding, but don't really think they exist. ...
A. 7 July 2008: Dear I love with someone else, Have you ever asked yourself if you and your current boyfriend are "in" love with each other. Yes you may love each other. As in you care for each other, wouldn't want the others feelings to be hurt. But have y... (read in full...)
| *ane Dashwood's friends
These are mutual friends, so *ane Dashwood has
added them and they have added *ane Dashwood!
|
