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My friend doesn't want me to go to strip clubs but why???

Q.   Hi i have a question... the situation is my friend gets mad when i go to the strip club... im a virgin but i still go for lap dances... there's strippers that would have sex with me though or at least a bJ and some werent even going to charge.. ...

A.   18 June 2010: She likes you duh!:) she may like someone else but when it comes to it she doesn't want anyone else to have u, maybe she like he attention but I bet she wants u ... (read in full...)

His past sex life has recently started bothering me!

Q.   It has recently started bothering me that my boyfriend of two years was with other women before me when I've only ever been with him. I don't know why I suddenly feel like this. I honestly didn't use to mind. It's not like I didn't know and I used ...

A.   18 June 2010: Your being horrible to this poor lad who obviously likes u! Why must u be like this?! Everyone has a pass but this guy really seems to like you if he wouldn't call ppl his girlfriend before u.. If it's reli bugging u talk to him about it- honesty is ... (read in full...)

I really really like him but I'm not visually attracted to him!

Q.   I need some advise, the situation is this I met this guy that I exactly what I have been lookin 4, he treats me good, he compliments me every time he has a chance, we can sit and talk about anything, I have been in a relationship before and that ...

A.   21 May 2010: you answered your question yourself!! you said you really wanna be with him so i'd advise you to stop being vain and looking skin deep if you like him go for it before he finds someone "better looking than you"... (read in full...)

Confidence issues are keeping me single

Q.   Hey :) So this is going to make me sound like a complete looser but I seem to be totally incapable of getting a boyfriend! Im 15 and i havent even how a first kiss yet - how pathetic? I have really really really low self-confidence and so im quite ...

A.   21 May 2010: hey well your not alone i didnt have my first kiss till i was 15 too! amm well you need to stop pointing out the bad qualities you see in yourself first of all.. secondly look in the mirror and smile at yourself a smile will make u look friendly ... (read in full...)

Do I tell his fiance what we did?

Q.   A week ago, I went for a walk with an engaged guy, and somehow we ended up kissing and feeling each other up. The day after, we met up and things went further (but we didn't sleep together or anything.) The thing is, I am 15 and have never had much ...

A.   6 May 2010: Tell her! If it was u you would wanna know.. Marriage is built on trust and it's destroyed now... (read in full...)

Why does he use Porn to get off...and ignores me??I am more than willing!

Q.   Hi... i feel kinda embarassed to asked this but i have to since i cant get answers from my bf.. We've been together for almost 7 months now, out of all that time he has been watching porn for like 1 1/2 almost EVERY DAY.. He didnt tell me he was ...

A.   17 April 2009: firstly u need to turn off the internet off his porn fest!! why dont you try something to spice it up a bit like come in wearing nothing or practically nothing and sit on him while he's at the computer he'll soon focus on you!:D... (read in full...)

Give him a class ring?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My boyfriend (14) and I (17) have been together for about two weeks short of six months. Despite our age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. We never fight, and we're always totally there for each other. The half-year mark i...

A.   17 April 2009: a hoodie that way he can wear it and think of you and wear it if he's proud in front o friends too :D... (read in full...)

Want to spend the night with boyfriend, what will happen if I leave my car in a parking lot..will it be towed?

Q.   I want to spend the night with my bf, but I don't want any of my family members seeing my car at his house. Would wal-mart or another place of business such as walgreens tow my car if I leave it parked overnight? And I am using protection...

A.   17 April 2009: why dont you park it at a friends house and get him to collect you or get a taxi?:D... (read in full...)

Should I go out with someone that I don't have alot of feelings for?

Q.   i really want a boyfriend atm, theres the prom coming up and im just really lonely theres a few guys that i think are interested in me but i just dont feel that much for them do you think i should just go out with one of them anyway? surely ...

A.   17 April 2009: NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! to be blunt:P... take a friend to the prom you will have so much more fun which is better taking a guy you liked as a friend or taking a guy you hope could be more.. i think you know the real answer..:Dx... (read in full...)

How do pop the question to my pregnant girlfriend?

Q.   i love my girlfriend alot and we just found out she is pregnant and i want to ask she to be my wife but i am not sure when or how to ask her i have been thinking about this for a long time... should i...

A.   17 April 2009: If your heart is set on it ya do! the baby will be so lucky having a father figure to grow up with:D... (read in full...)

Is my girlfriend too young for me, do you think?

Q.   I have been dating a much younger girl for 6 months now (im coming on 27,she is 17) She is a great girl,she is understanding and caring. My problem is,she has met most of my family and friends on a number of occasions and each time she will ju...

A.   17 April 2009: My boyfriends 6 years older then me and im always quite and shy i mean put yourself in her shoes ? all she's trying to do is keep her mouth shut so nothing bad or stupid can come out. try to include her more in convo ie lik when your talking to say ... (read in full...)

How do I get over a broken heart? I love him and want him back although he is not worth it?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Two nights ago my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss, I was and still am completely in love with him. I had noticed he had been a bit off with me around other people but when we were alo...

A.   17 April 2009: Well one thing, at least you know he's not worth it! i know everyone will say it but really your too young its puppy love and you soon will find a new crush.. I was nearly with my ex for a year and we did everything a couple could do and almost a ... (read in full...)

Will a guy be offended if a girl wants to try something new?

Q.   Hi I'm in a solely sexual relationship with a guy the same age as me. I do have feelings for him, but have been trying to get over them and it's working. Lately I've been thinking that I want to end our sexual relationship, but I'm afraid becau...

A.   17 April 2009: NOt at all if its fun for you it probs will be for him too! maybe talk about it and see what page ye are both on hope it works x... (read in full...)

My vagina hurts and I don't know why

Q.   My Vagina hurts. And i just can't figure out why. It hurts when i pee and when i sit down. The only thing that helps is pouring water on it while i pee. Can someone tell me what's the problem ?...

A.   17 April 2009: Maybe you have an sti or std??... (read in full...)

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