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18 January 2011: Hello, I am about to write this in the hopes it falls into good hands and open minds. I am a mid 30's male. My sex life started quite young as I learned about sex at around age 7, read the Joy of Sex when I was 9. Read about 50 penthouse forums, ...
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I don't catch any attention from guys!
Q. There's been something that's been unnerving me for some time. I get told that I'm pretty, and funny, and a catch, yet I still don't get any attention from guys. I'm coming to the conclusion that those might just be pity lines thrown my way. The ...
A. 19 January 2011: At 15 you state how mature you are, but sorry you are not. Maturity comes with age and experience. Be more patient and enjoy being a kid, or you'll miss it.... (read in full...)
If he was looking for a one night stand, why did he ask me out?
Q. So I met a guy in a club last week, we really hit it off. He lost his phone while we were out, and so lost his friends and couldn't find them. I let him come back to my flat as I felt he was stranded (something I have never done before), we ended up ...
A. 19 January 2011: That is a pretty specfic event and I can understand your confusion. I say, let it go for now. Don't fret too much. If he realy likes/d you there will be future contact and explenations. In the meantime, chalk up the life experience and enjoy the ... (read in full...)
Sex is getting to be a pain in the rear!
Q. Ok I am so confused. I have had a total of 3 long term relationships in my 20 years of dating. 2 of my Xs are still dear friends and each has moved on. I have been in my current relationship with a much younger man for about 6 months now. It has ...
A. 19 January 2011: You need to tell him that he may be doing good things, that doesn't mean he should ignore your concerns. Lubrication is very important and sometimes nature doesn't cover it fully. Remind him that the chaffing takes time to heal, and makes down ... (read in full...)
What is the point of looking at porn?
Q. My boyfriend once told me i was sad and pathetic for looking at porn on my mobile phone. I have now since found out he does the same, when i reminded him how sad and pathetic this was he told me he doesnt masturbate over it. What is the point ...
A. 19 January 2011: Porn is out there, it is wonderful and beautiful. It is also dirty, disturbing, and pushes the boundries. We all have sex. Everyone. Why not learn the who, what, how, when, where and why? 70% of people are visual learners, so is it a huge ... (read in full...)
After the baby, our sex life has gone from great and often to infrequent! Help!
Q. In the past 11 months, my boyfriend and I have only had sex 5 times. I had a baby a couple months ago and we have not had sex since a month before she was born. Before that, it had been almost 3 months. I am ok with the fact that we didn't have it ...
A. 19 January 2011: Don't accuse infidelity ever. If you have real doubts, hire someone to check, and never tell. I suggest that you jump into it again. Try and remember things that made him attack you that way before. As we get older, we get fatter. Get used to ... (read in full...)
My ex's words: "it's too much right now, but maybe later in the future". Was it all my fault??
Q. My ex and I met through a mutual friend and instantly connected. He was talking to someone and so was I, so we were strictly friends, but the more we talked about things the more we realized how much we had in common with what we wanted out of a ...
A. 19 January 2011: I'm sorry no-one has replied to you yet. He use a 'Honesty is my middle name' game on you. He was never ready to hear the truth (maybe a little), and got you to spill everything yourself so he dodn't have to find out later. I'm sorry but in one ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to come out?
Q. Hi, i started to hav fellings for boys about 2 years ago and since then i cant seem to shake them from mi mind however i still lIke girls but i think i hav more feelings and sexual atraction for boys. Im 15 almost 16! Also there is one paticula...
A. 18 January 2011: Don't rush things. You have a different side of life that is totaly normal, just not always accepted. Be confident, and smart. One thing to consider is how people accept you. Any one who is a friend and true, will always treat you the same no ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy 20 years older... he has erectile difficulties and an overactive sex drive!
Q. Please I need help! I am a confident atrctive young female I have been dating an older man for almost a year he is 20 years my elder and I love him dearley however we have problems he has both erectile difficulties and an over active sex drive I am ...
A. 18 January 2011: Please say that you have either left this man behind or have entered into couples counciling. With the damage he had done to him and bringing it into your home, you need to be given a medal for staying this long. Patience can only go so far ... (read in full...)
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