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I also know how to attract, intrigue and please men. I love only one man, but love to flirt and tease with others. He enjoys me being a tease and encourages my dalliances.
We live in Texas and I'm an RN with 2 wonderful children and an active lifestyle. I believe in the power of women to create their own condition and to be independent of others for their happiness. Learn the value of self worth and others will gravitate to you for your positive outlook. |
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Is it possible to be in a relationship when I know he's having sex with other women as his job?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and we love each other. i tried to hook up with him then because friends told me he was trying to get into the porn business so i thought he would be big. he is, trust me. he did not get an offer from ...
A. 17 September 2011: Good for you....don't look back either. He wants his cake and eat it too. No thanks buddy.....you ain't eating this cake!!... (read in full...)
Sex addiction, does it exist?
Q. Does anyone really believe in sex addiction? Ive always been one to say people use the word addiction to make things look a little better and a little less their fault...But all my life ive always been fond of sex, ALOT. Its almost as if i cant say ...
A. 11 September 2011: I was the same as you when I was younger. I acted on my impulses with a lot of different guys, BUT I was on the pill so I never worried about pregnancy. I also never confused sex with love. I had sex because I liked it, NOT so I could catch a guy. ... (read in full...)
I've uncovered the truth, but he won't say anymore!?!
Q. I have a huge problem! I started dating this man, he told me that his past wife died, I fell in love, well through time things were not adding up, red flags. Come to find out his wife did not die! He is married. I confronted him and he said he would ...
A. 10 September 2011: I agree with AuntyEm. Dump him fast and don't ask questions, he'll just lie anyway. Be strong sister or you'll find yourself in the exact same situation with another guy.
Why do women ignore the red flags then act surprised when the truth comes ou... (read in full...)
My husband and I both have fantasies. How can I bring up my fantasy for his consideration?
Q. A few years ago my husband told me he had a dream of me having sex with a very large woman. We talked and for the first time I admitted to him I always wondered what it would be like and I get turned on watching lesbian porn. I told him how nerv...
A. 10 September 2011: My husband and I have a very open and exciting life. He mentioned to me that he'd often fantasized about a 3way with another female. I wasn't so excited about that one, BUT I did fantasize what it would be like to have two guys....him and another ... (read in full...)
A am female and have only male friends - is this abnormal?
Q. My best friend is female but she's gay and recently I made another female friend who is also gay. Other than that, all my friends are male. I don't feel comfortable with women - I didn't have many girl friends in school because I was so shy and I ...
A. 10 September 2011: Nothing wrong with that sister....it just shows you have good self esteem and are comfortable around men. Hopefully they are good looking! Are you married and does it bother him if you are?... (read in full...)
Why does my wife wear sexy panties at work and granny panties at home?
Q. I'll try to keep this brief. She wears sexy panties and thongs to work but granny panties at home and sometimes, about 50% of the time, wears no panties to work. When questioned about no panties she explains she wore the same ugly pair because she...
A. 10 September 2011: I think that she enjoys feeling sexy and enjoys teasing the men in her office. Maybe you should encourage her during sex like my hub does. He likes for me to go bra-less and when we go out and I wear a short skirt he either wants me to wear a sexy ... (read in full...)
Can I hope for a relationship with him? He asked me what I thought about him getting back together with his ex!
Q. I am 33 years old and have been spending time with a gentleman around my same age. A mutual friend introduced us to each other and he indicated to her that he was interested in me...but he was going to take it slow. It's been 4 months since we have...
A. 10 September 2011: Follow your instincts sister and run, not walk, the other way. This guy is confused and noncommittal to the point of nausea. I've never been able to understand men that can't make their minds up. I will say that if he wants to know your opinion ... (read in full...)
How can I feel better? I'm sad about the breakup after I refused him more than we were doing sexually,
Q. I was in sexual relationship with a guy 6 months back. I'm 16 and he is 23. I agreed for sex because I was depressed after my break-up and I wanted to get over my ex. It was online relation. We used to sex chat. We never did it in real. He want...
A. 10 September 2011: TAKE CONTROL GIRL! Are you serious? This guy only wants you for his property and his use. He is a manipulator and user. You need to grow up and realize that a lot of guys will TAKE whatever you give them, then drop you like yesterday's newspaper ... (read in full...)
After she gave birth she is not tight like before! What can I do?
Q. Hello all cupid users Can you please help, since she gave birth sex is not like before. Her vaginal wetness is not the same. its dry. And how can I get the vaginal tightness she had before? Thanks...
A. 10 September 2011: That is a very selfish comment about someone that just carried your child for 9 torturous months. She could just as well have said that your not "big" enough to satisfy her. That coin has two sides!... (read in full...)
My married lover puts me in awkward situations where I have to meet his wife. Why would he do this?
Q. Hi, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for over 6 yrs, we are both in our late 50's,we both care for each other very much and get on really well and enjoy seeing each other. we can't break it off so please no moral judgments. i...
A. 10 September 2011: He's a sadist and wants you to suffer. You've made a major mistake and you think this dude actually cares for you. Believe me he doesn't. If he did he wouldn't want you to suffer. My advise to you is for you to find another guy to "entertain" and ... (read in full...)
He's worth it... even for a hook up!!!
Q. This guy cancelled a date, said he'd reschedule, seems busy, but I want him SO bad, I don't usually message or call guys but he's so worth it, even for a hookup, should I go ahead and call? A part of me says yes do it, a part of me says no????...
A. 10 September 2011: The guy is probably a jerk and not for you, but go ahead and call him for a hook up. Use him for your pleasure then move on, but don't fall for him in a romantic way. So many women confuse lust for love. They are not the same and should never be ... (read in full...)
My wife has no sex drive and this is ruining things!
Q. My wife has no sex drive. This is ruining everything. We have been together for 12 years and we have 3 children, separation is NO option. I have searched not only this website but the entire net high and low and have found nothing, no real a...
A. 10 September 2011: I believe that she has to look deep inside and find out why she doesn't feel sexy. If you don't feel sexy you don't want to have sex. Kids will do that, but you have to take action to resolve the problem. Years ago my drive wasn't where I wanted so ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be in a relationship when I know he's having sex with other women as his job?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and we love each other. i tried to hook up with him then because friends told me he was trying to get into the porn business so i thought he would be big. he is, trust me. he did not get an offer from ...
A. 10 September 2011: Tell him that you too want to be a porn star and ask for his help in finding you work. I'm quite certain that it would be much easier for you to find "work" in the industry and that you could make more money than him. I bet that he would say no, ... (read in full...)
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