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I feel more comfortable dressing like a guy

Q.   Hi. Um, I hope this question is appropriate for this kind of forum, but it's the only site I can really find that seems reliable. Anyway... I'm confused. I'm a 19 year old girl and consider myself as such. I have crushes on boys, though I've only...

A.   7 June 2010: I'm thinking that your probably just really tomboyish. I'm the same way but not as extreme. Trans means that you are uncomfortbale with your sex. Just cause you like dressing like a guy doens't mean that you want to be one.... (read in full...)

Stalked by a friend. Why did he do this? It's scaring me!

Q.   Im on my home from the store right i feel like im being followed then when im about to turn around i get a txt ok it said "i see you!" so i look around and i see my friend ( its the stalker boy) so i talk to him for a couple minutes then i start to ...

A.   3 April 2010: Maybe he really likes you and just wanted to see you or something? Or maybe he's just being a total creeper and you should avoid him as much a possible. Tell your parents, they can help you. If your not too scared, ask him what he was doing that ... (read in full...)

Should I come out to my friend? How do I get my mom to believe me?

Q.   *OP's own title* My mom always says that I can tell her anything. So two weeks ago I told her that I was gay. She took it okay but she thinks that it's just a phase and that I'm not sure. I'm positive that I like girls and every time I tell her that...

A.   31 March 2010: My parents are divorced and I haven't seen my dad in years. I don't have any siblings. It's just my mom and I. ... (read in full...)

Am I gay/straight/bi or confused?

Q.   hello, i am 20 year old guy, and a virgin =/ it appears i no longer consider myself straight since i had 2 incidents (not sexually but the way that you feel about someone you just met and you want to spent every hour of your time with him), tha...

A.   26 March 2010: It sounds like you might be bi-curious. Don't hide from your feelings, I did that and it didn't work out so well. Maybe you should try to test the waters with this guy. Don't rush into it though. Just start by getting to know each other and if you ... (read in full...)

Can anyone help me on sexual identity?

Q.   Ok so I'm a 15 year old guy soon to be 16. And my whole life I've always felt weird and different. I've spent my entire life either hiding it, pretending i wasn't, trying to force myself not to be, or just denying it from myself and others. But I ...

A.   23 March 2010: I know exactly how you feel, except I'm a girl. I too thought that it was just a long phase until I accepted the fact that I am a lesbian. I figured it out when I realized that I wasn't attracted to guys anymore, it didn't matter how attractice he ... (read in full...)

Making out tips, I want them to be most romantic!

Q.   Heya, how can i make my pulls (french kiss) more enjoyable than they alredyvare, and almost more horny like and romantic? thaanks....

A.   16 February 2010: If you want your make out to be romantic yet get your partner excited, don't rush into it. Keep your hands moving, run them through your partners hair and over their body. Use tounge but don't be sloppy, no one likes a sloppy kisser. Be light a ... (read in full...)

So confused about my sexual orientation...

Q.   Hi people basically my problem is i've been confused about my sexual orientation for a while now. It all started about a year ago when i made friends with this guy and we became best friends really quicky and became really close and i started ...

A.   16 February 2010: It sounds like this guy may like you. Before you tell him how you feel maybe ask him if he's serious about his feelings or not. But if you really think that this guy has the same feelings as you then try to bring it up causually. Don't talk to ... (read in full...)

I think I might be a bad kisser!

Q.   Well, pretty much the title says it all. I know that it's really hard to stay with someone that's a bad kisser, because you get those urges. I do NOT like using tongue while kissing, but most guys do, i know. How can I tell if I'm bad at kissi...

A.   15 February 2010: Everyone has their own kissing style. I'm with you, I don't really like using tounge either but I do it anyways just to make the guys happy. You can tell if your a bad kisser if guys don't seem to enjoy your kissing, they stop suddenly, or if they ... (read in full...)

Am I a fool to stay with this guy?

Q.   I'm feeling very confused and unsure about what to do in my relationship. We have been together on and off for 5 years in may. We live together and had a wedding booked for last may but it never happened as i left him due to us arguing so much abou...

A.   15 February 2010: It sounds like you two have gone through a lot a rough times together. You have to ask yourself if this guy is worth all of your troubles. If you really love him and you think that you can look past everything that's happened then great. But if he ... (read in full...)

Making out with my bf for the first time--just didn't feel right! Is this a bad sign?

Q.   I have been with this guy for 5 month and he is my first boyfriend and he was my first kiss but a few days ago he made out with me for the first time but it didnt feel right...is this just because it was my first time or am i scared...im really ...

A.   15 February 2010: I know exactly how you feel. The first time I made out with a boy it felt really weird to me. It's just something that you have to get used to, the first time usually doesn't feel right. Give it time, you have to warm up to it. If it still feels ... (read in full...)

Is he just playing with me? I'm so confused.

Q.   i dont know what i should do because one day he told me to wait for him and see what happens ...then the next day we on a fieldtrip and he was talking to some other girls..it seems like he know how to play with my heart he does things on purpose to ...

A.   11 May 2009: Sounds like this boy is either nervous to ask you whatever he wants to ask you or he's confused. Maybe he's trying to make you jealous. You should just talk to him about it, if he's into you then I'm sure he won't be afriad to tell you.... (read in full...)

3 problems into 1

Q.   Hi, I'm really hoping you will answer my question and please excuse any typos. I love, my best friend, she has a boyfriend, and she has NO idea I Love Her. We do pointless, mindless flirting, she knows that I also do that with most of my other ...

A.   11 May 2009: Unfortunately you can't make someone love you, especially if they are into someone else. If it's meant to be then it will happen. Maybe you should talk to this girl and tell her that her boyfriend is being a dick. All you can really do is be a good ... (read in full...)

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