Am I just getting played?
Q. I am 16. He is 18. Back in december we dated for 2 months (febuary) I was completly heartbroken ect. Then about the 3rd week of march we went back out but this time, after about a week, I broke up with him because the relationship wasn't as personal ...
A. 13 April 2009: if it doesn't feel right then its probably not... you are anxiety bc you do not trust this boy and my guess is with good reason, my advise stop with the dirty texts and slow it down see if he really wants a relationship or just sex.. don't give it ... (read in full...)
I'm not going to let her push me away without a fight!
Q. Ok... I wrote a while ago and things have pretty much remained the same. We've talked a bit more and she told me that she's never felt this strongly about someone this quickly before....but she is pushing me away even more now. I don't call her, ...
A. 13 April 2009: first you must listen to what she is saying to you and respect her feelings this is not about what you want ONLY but what she wants and can handle.. if you like this girl so much and step back and offer her friendship no strings attached.. stop the ... (read in full...)
Confused! Is this love? Should I give him some space?
Q. I have been going out with my bf for about a month now and a half, how we hooked up was him revealing his love for me and i gave him a chance finally. I have been hurt many times with ppl cheating on me and it is taken me a while to stop being scar...
A. 13 April 2009: I think you are just so afraid of rejection that its not even about him.. its about you.. stop calling him and give him space.. the more you push the more you will push him away... there are no guarantees in life especially to love and relationship ... (read in full...)
After hateful texts messages, she wants to be "friends"...?
Q. My former best friend, turned girlfriend of 3 months dumped me two months ago. Since then we haven't spoken and have just engaged in nasty text message arguments saying we hate each other. Now she seems to want to be my friend again. I quite miss ...
A. 13 April 2009: have a real heart to heart with her resolve the anger and ask qs.. after make the decision if you can and want to be her friend.... (read in full...)
I really can't cope with the constant rejection!
Q. Hi everybody. My problem is this, I am in love with a girl who is also my best friend. We are pretty much like a married couple and even refer to each other as husband and wife, i've never told her because I really don't know how she feels back. ...
A. 13 April 2009: well here the qs.. if you tell her just say that you feel more for her then just a friend and ask her if she has the same feelings.. if not then do take some time apart from her to redirect your attention and find someone who will care the way you ... (read in full...)
I love them...both.
Q. I've been married since last June, but we've been together since 2002. In 2005, I met a man. A great man. We fell in love so fast and effortlessly. But I was in a relationship and scared to leave for what I may have been giving up. Nonethel...
A. 13 April 2009: it sounds that you can greatly benefit from taking time out from both take a mini trip do some soul searching and come back and really be honest with yourself.... (read in full...)
I like being with my boyfriend and find it hard to break up...
Q. Hi I've been going out with this guy for 3 years now...but for the past year we have been falling out and things aren't what they used to be....he's very jealous and sometimes controlling but on the other hand he can be so sweet and fun...la...
A. 13 April 2009: just ask your bf for some time out tell him that you need to be on your own for now and need him to give you that opportunity to sort things out.. say that maybe for now if he can handle it you can just be friends.. and go from there ... (read in full...)
The problem is I have begun to like him...a lot!
Q. here goes, I'm a 24 yr old gal who likes this really cute guy and me and him were always talking online everyday, and we met each other two three times already.. he told me he finds me attractive and is attracted to me.even we met the first time he ...
A. 13 April 2009: you need to ask yourself what feels more comfortable to you/ 1) spend time energy fantasizing and being scared of your feelings or taking a chance and saying something like this.. I really enjoy having you in my life and think your a great guy the ... (read in full...)
What would you do if your bf had 4 women spend the night?
Q. What would you do if your boyfriend had four females spend the night? I had recently gotten back together with my ex after a two no contact period. He had cheated on me in our relationship before and we broke up. Fast forward two years, we got back...
A. 13 April 2009: you deserve better... the relationship has lost its trust years before,, and a month and half is not enough to provide that he is trust worthy.. so in your heart he is not.. TRUST IS GREATER THEN LOVE..if there is no trust in love you will suffer.. ... (read in full...)
Should I or shouldn't I, have sex with my ex?
Q. I've been contemplating this problem for a few days now, and still haven't come to a conclusion! I spoke to my ex-boyfriend last Wednesday (we don't talk much, he's in the US army) and we started off with the general chat, how everything was g...
A. 13 April 2009: it sounds like your boyfriend is enjoying the idea of having sex with you again as well as being in the army and feeling someone is there to greet him home. but beware all this could be a fantasy. you are interpreting an offer of sex as an offe... (read in full...)
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