I think my new guy treats me really well, but my folks will hate the 22 years age difference!
Q. I am 20 and my last boyfriend of two years was 47. Things didn't work out with him because he always put me down. Now I am seeing someone who is 42 who treats me really well. I want to tell my parents but I'm worried they will go up the wall like ...
A. 24 October 2005: GO FOR IT! The most important thing in a relationship is respect. If he treats you like a princess and also you find him irresistible BINGO! If he makes you happy your family and friends will see it and will accept him.... (read in full...)
What if the nasty texts I sent to my ex actually went through?
Q. I have really stuffed up. My ex boyfriend is currently travelling round Asia. I have a lot of unresolved feelings with him and a lot of things I haven't felt that I could say to him. I lost my virginity to him when I was 19 and a year later we had a ...
A. 14 October 2005: I think that you should move on and meet other guys, there are planty of nice guys out there who will make you happy. I know that is difficult to forget about your ex-boyfriend...also you don't really need his friendship, you can meet plenty of ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend found out about my sexual past and now she thinks I'm a "whore"!
Q. I am a 27 yr old male and my girlfriend is 21. We have been together for 8 months. I have been with 35 partners and she has been with 6. We continue to have problems with the fact that I have been with more people than her. I always reassure...
A. 6 October 2005: Well I'd feel in the same way that your girlfriend. What you could do is to reassure to your girlfriend that you love her and that is much nicer to be in a relationship with her than being playing like a kid having threesomes with anyone. At the end ... (read in full...)
I insisted my girlfriend tell me about her fantasies, but I didn't like what I heard!
Q. My girlfriend and I were having a frank discussion the other night, and I asked her if there was anyone besides me that she fantasized about having sex with. She didn't want to tell me, but I forced the issue because I felt like she was hiding ...
A. 4 October 2005: I think that you should ask her why is she with you and try to find out whether she is deeply in love with you or she is just comfortable with you... For myself if I really love someone I don't need to fantasize about another block, I would only do ... (read in full...)
Never watched porn, so the mechanics of actual sex are a mystery to me!
Q. Hi. I have a problem, me and my girlfriend are both 18 and it's long-term (I'm a virgin, she's not). As I never really watched pornography or anything like that when I was younger, I'm really unaware of how to pleasure a woman. I've learnt to play ...
A. 4 October 2005: I think that you should talk to her openly and ask her what she likes. Don't worry about getting her wet because you can use special lubricants and the more you communicate with her about sex the more confident you'll become and she will be more ... (read in full...)
Not attracted to men, I can't really see myself as a lesbian either...
Q. I didn’t know where to turn but here I found a website where I can voice my confusion. It is difficult to say, but my problem is beginning a relationship. I have been confused about my sexual orientation for a long time now, about six years. T...
A. 1 October 2005: I think that it's important to feel good about yourself before you start feeling attracted to people. The happier you are with your life and yourself the better chances you have to find people who you feel attracted to and viceversa. Just express ... (read in full...)
Good-looking guys treat me badly, but I can't date someone I'm not attracted to!
Q. Can someone help? I seem to be stuck in a cycle.. all I do is choose really good looking guys and predictably this ends in depressing disaster because most of those men are too busy enjoying themselves to really want a girlfriend. At least, that's b...
A. 1 October 2005: I feel in the same way but I hope one day to meet a good-looking guy who treats me well. I think that it's possible because I'm a good-looking girl and nice as a person and I don't see why I cannot someone like me... but I suppose that women are ... (read in full...)
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