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writes: I am 20 and my last boyfriend of two years was 47. Things didn't work out with him because he always put me down. Now I am seeing someone who is 42 who treats me really well. I want to tell my parents but I'm worried they will go up the wall like they did last time. I tend to be more attracted to older guys (I like young guys too). This new guy boosts my confidence and makes me feel great. I think he is lovely and find him really attractive. What can I do? I don't see anything wrong with seeing an older guy but my parents hate it.
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reader, GISELA +, writes (24 October 2005):
GO FOR IT! The most important thing in a relationship is respect. If he treats you like a princess and also you find him irresistible BINGO! If he makes you happy your family and friends will see it and will accept him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2005): I am 51 and have learned that age does not matter. If you are sure that he is the right one and not just a passing flirt, then go for it. Take what happiness you can get. He may live until he is 90 and you may die young, It is the time together that counts. My friend has married a man of 77 and she is 47. They adore each other and she says when he is not with her she feels part of her is missing. I have also looked after a man of 65 who was crippled with heart disease, and his 85 year old was his carer... and a smart bunny she was too!
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