My wifes was not a virgin how do I get even?
Q. hai, ok my wifes sexual past haunts me. Married 6 years and i am recently just finding out about her.i was a virgin when i married her and when we talked during our dating years she implied that she was pure. I came acros her diary and yes sorry i ...
A. 25 July 2010: Well, think this is a tad bit different considering that you were a virgin when you met her. True enough she "implied" that she was pure and didn't outright say it but implying things that aren't true is not right.
Now, it wasn't the best ide... (read in full...)
My cousin dated the guy I liked once I had moved away, but now we want to give things a try but I am worried about hurting my cousin!
Q. Hello guys I really need some good advice,i am in a very complicated situation! So 4 years ago I was 16 I dated this guy but only for a one month(we were very close friends before anything) he was my first love and I really loved him,but for some...
A. 25 July 2010: Honestly, it really wasn't too cool for your cousin to date someone that you've dated. I don't even date guys that my friends have been involved with or has tried to hit on my friends. Its just too complicated and there are plenty of men to go ... (read in full...)
How to deal with hurt feelings and negative thoughts?
Q. I've been married for 10 yrs and 2 boys 14mon and 28 months old. my husband and i have been very distant, sleeping in separate rooms and i try not to communicate with him as much as possible. this is all due to consistant fights and mostly to the ...
A. 25 July 2010: OMG, I went through the same thing with a mom that couldn't stay out of my business. It is IRRITATING. Honestly I was engaged to the guy and thats why I broke it off.
But..you're married so your situation is different. I would talk to my hu... (read in full...)
How do I interact with the ladies and handle mother hen situations?
Q. Going out tonight with my buddies to a club party. The problem is that i haven't been out in a while and i'm also single. How do i interact with the ladies and handle mother hen situations? if this hepls i'm athletic almost 6ft1. Thanks guys i ...
A. 25 July 2010: Not to be silly, but what is a mother hen situation? ... (read in full...)
Bf acting distant I think he's about to break up with me? Help!!
Q. Okay me and my boyfriend started dating about 9 weeks ago. He'd come up to the bar where i worked and one day i asked him to hang out and we did all night and we started dating about 2 days later. The first 2 months were perfect, we hung out ever...
A. 25 July 2010: Relationships have different phases. And it makes you wonder if he doesn't want to be with you or if its just a spell. I've found that giving them space is the best thing for both parties.
If you give him his space and he leaves,y... (read in full...)
Everyone is rude to me!
Q. I live in the Greensboro/High Point area of North Carolina, and I've gotten to the point where I can't stand it. People here are obscenely rude to me on a regular basis, and I don't tolerate it. It happens to me several times a day! For exampl...
A. 25 July 2010: It may be a culture thing, I was raised in the deep south and its different when I go to other states. Honestly, I have a very strong personality and if I find that I'm having a difficult time with social interactions, I look at the things that I ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn't sure he was over his ex girlfriend, and now he won't leave me alone, what do I do?
Q. I was just wondering if anyone can give me some advise on this please.. I've recently ended my relationship with my boyfriend. So we were together for two years, there were good and bad points like there are with any relationship, but I felt the bad ...
A. 25 July 2010: Yes, I had a relationship like that. He didn't compare me to other women, but he was a lot older. He often talked about how pretty and successful his ex girlfriends were but I later found out that it wasn't exactly true.
When you date someone ... (read in full...)
In a bad long term relationship but if I leave I'll lose everything we've worked for!
Q. Okay well, my boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, best friends for 5. You could consider us married, although neither of us have an interest in it at the time...for a lot of reasons. I don't want to say I don't love him, but it's hard too ...
A. 25 July 2010: Any relationship gets hard after about two of three years. The newness is worn off and things irritate you a lot more quickly. I think that if the both of you agree that you don't want to be apart, its a problem that can be fixed. Sometimes we ... (read in full...)
After finally convincing my boyfriend to marry me, I'M now the one having second thoughts!
Q. I am a woman who likes to live life according to plans. I had my next year all planned out and my heart set on it working out as so. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. We just graduated from college and I have one year before ...
A. 15 July 2010: Definately hit the brakes if you're having second doubts. Its natural to get cold feet but always make sure that you're marrying the man and not the "idea" of getting married. Take your time and don't pressure yourself, It will come eventually.... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 15 July 2010: Its really important to look at differences that bother you to an extreme before the marriage. All couples have differences but its up to you if you are willing to work with them. I think that counciling would be a good idea if you think its ... (read in full...)
Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past
Q. hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and ...
A. 15 July 2010: You have to learn to accept her past as she has yours. I've rummaged through ex-boyfriend's stuff before and I realized that I did it out of insecurities in the relationship. Although some of my concerns turned out to be unfortunately true, I ... (read in full...)
I can't have the girl I want without feeling like a dog for leaving
Q. Here is a tough one for you guys. I grew up with a girl who became my foster sister when I was 15 . I have always been in love with her.I told her I loved her when we 16 then again 19 and the last time when we were 24 when she told me she didnt lo...
A. 15 July 2010: That is a tough situation. Good thing you're being honest with everyone, including yourself. You have to sit down and see why you feel that way. Is it because the marriage is going though a "boring" phase or is it because you married her because ... (read in full...)
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