She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!
Q. 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...
A. 11 November 2009: Oh dear oh dear. I'm feeling vulnerable and I'm clutching at straws when my ex gf's mum calls. She tells me that it's too soon to leave and that my now ex gf does love me but she's readjusting. I take her through the whole story and then she says ... (read in full...)
Should I just come clean about why I renewed my commitment to my boyfriend?
Q. I've been going through a rough patch with my boyfriend, and another guy started showing an interest in me. I was very interested in this guy too, and we ended up doing a lot of things in the 'grey area' that doesn't quite count as cheating but is ...
A. 7 November 2009: If you want to relieve your guilt then don't tell him because that is not a good reason. If you want to lay the foundations of an honest and strong relationship then you must declare it. Expect him to be angry and know how you're going to make ... (read in full...)
I think I've lost the love of my life
Q. please help, ive lost the love of my life, ive scared her off, im in love with this girl we have known each other for a couple of months she is definitely interested but i told her that i love her and she has started to pull back and i dont know ...
A. 7 November 2009: "I think I've lost the love of my life" That's not true. She's out there, but it may not be the person you thought. Learn from the mistake you made and come across as stronger in the future. ... (read in full...)
She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?
Q. (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex ...
A. 7 November 2009: It is tough. You need to accept that for whatever reason she's gone. Move on. Learn to drop the 'clingy' mentality you've developed. Get yourself out and meet some new people. Do some new things and try to have some fun again.... (read in full...)
She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?
Q. i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex ...
A. 7 November 2009: If she's sorry. She loves you and she's honest. And you love her or think you might then do it. Otherwise move on.... (read in full...)
Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?
Q. Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...
A. 7 November 2009: You say that he knows you have zero trust in him, but how? Sometimes people don't listen to us. It's worth telling him again "Because of what has happened in the past I sometimes find it hard to trust you...." It sounds like he's wanting you to t... (read in full...)
He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?
Q. I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...
A. 7 November 2009: You need to get out. Go to some parties. Ask both A and D out on some more dates. That way you'll get a better feeling about if they're available and you'll be able to clarify your feelings. Keep an eye out, there may be an E or an F around the ... (read in full...)
Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?
Q. Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...
A. 7 November 2009: If she has been up front with you (ie she told you) and she shows contrition then as hard as it may be you need to think about forgiving her and trusting her again. Tell her that in order you to understand her she needs to give you a little more ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!
Q. 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...
A. 7 November 2009: [Situation Update]
So I called various people up. I spoke to her mum and some of her friends in order to understand her position. I then called her up and I took her through what her story was (A thing that concerned was she said that I wasn’t list... (read in full...)
She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!
Q. 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...
A. 5 November 2009: I'm in love with her and because of that I'm going through absolute hell. I've just read that when you're in love your brain is releasing chemicals that have a far stronger effect than heroin. Effectively I'm going cold turkey and it is so hard to ... (read in full...)
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