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How do you get over someone that you have never been with and never will be with?

Q.   How do you get over someone who you have never been with? I need help desperately, as i feel happy whenever this person is around, yet i have never been with them, and i know i never will. Please help. x...

A.   10 July 2012: Well...... This will sound harsh but there are plenty more fish in the sea so go find yourself someone better looking and just generally nicer to fancy and maybe one day you might get a chance with someone else! Also how do you know that you don't ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm everyone's punching bag

Q.   I'm 17 this year and during my whole life my family and most of my friends treat me like some stupid dumb girl. I'll admit that i am blur when it comes to alot of things but my examination results are above average and considered smart. My brother ...

A.   7 July 2012: Well.... Let me tell you this: you are not anybodys punching bag, you should never be used like this and if they are your 'friends' you would hope they are nice to you so maybe they aren't such good friends! What you need to do is tell people that... (read in full...)

My friends are always having fall outs or are so close they ignore everyone else!

Q.   Well, my friends are always having fall outs and I was just wondering if there is anyway to try and get them to stay friends without forcing them apart?? The other problem is that when they aren't falling out they act as if they are best friends and ...

A.   1 June 2012: Thanks I will talk to them about it!!!! ... (read in full...)

Should I stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of my son?

Q.   Hi everyone! Lately I’ve been thru a hard time with my husband (we’re not officially married, but living together for 3 years), we’re both 32 yo, we have a son together of 2 years old. We’re from different countries and currently living in South-...

A.   24 May 2012: Well that is a tricky one because obviously you want the best for your son but you have to think about yourself sometimes too!! You could try couples counselling if you and him want to make things better!! Don't worry your son about it but if you ... (read in full...)

He kept naked pictures of his ex in an old phone!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly two years now. Today I came home and was going through our old cell phones so I could clean up our desk. I came across one, that belonged to him, I was erasing contacts, pics, videos and whatnot.... Well ...

A.   24 May 2012: Ok, so you should probably say something to him about this and take it from there!!!!! If he does have feelings try to talk to him about it and if you want to end it then that is just the way things go!!! If he doesnt say he has feelings then don't ... (read in full...)

My son misses his dad but his dad wants nothing to do with him

Q.   Hi everyone, id just like some help regarding my son really. I wrote on here a while back about his dad being out of the picture for the last 2-3 years(my son is now 7). His dad lives just around the corner though has made it clear he has no intere...

A.   24 May 2012: Well that is hard!!! Is there anyway that you could talk to his dad and ask him to maybe look after your son a day every week or fortnight?!? Maybe this might get them together more!! This must be hard for you as well as your son!! Try and get your ... (read in full...)

Friends are fighting over the same guy!

Q.   Dear Cupid, My friends both like the same guy. Friend #1 is actually dating this guy. Friend #2 is heartbroken. They both hate each other. Personally I don't see why this guy is so great but they like him. Friend #1 is stressed out constant...

A.   24 May 2012: Ok well first you've gotta try and make your two friends like each other even though they are fighting over a boy!!!! Tell them that a boy should never come between a friend because boys are nice but can be a pain in the butt!! Also tell friend #2 ... (read in full...)

I have trouble dating because I say weird things and scare guys off

Q.   Hi...I am a very pretty girl with a good job. The one thing that I know I am is a bit weird. Once you get to know me though you will know that I am the most lovable person with a big heart. However, I don't come off as your normal person and say ...

A.   23 May 2012: Boys should like you for who you are, so if you consider youself as 'weird' then you've just gotta make boys like the 'weird' side of you!! ... (read in full...)

Should I have some fun with this guy or wait and see if my ex comes back?

Q.   so i have a question, i'm not a very good looking person, put frankly, i have never and don't ever get much male attention at all, the only male attention i recieve is off fat and ugly guys(i know that sounds bad, looks shouldn't matter, but if it's ...

A.   23 May 2012: Well, I think you should just go for it!! Go and have a good time but make sure he is 'the one'!! If your ex does come back then you can be cool and reject him if you want because he rejected you first!!! See how he likes it! ... (read in full...)

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