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writes:Dear Cupid, My friends both like the same guy. Friend #1 is actually dating this guy. Friend #2 is heartbroken. They both hate each other. Personally I don't see why this guy is so great but they like him. Friend #1 is stressed out constantly and is tired of competing with Friend #2, which actually Friend #2 is no competition because the guy wants nothing to do with Friend #2. Friend #2 is upset because the 'love of her life' doesn't love her back. I have given all of the advice I can give both of them without making either one hate me. I do not want to lose either friend but I need some advice. Help? Sincerly, A Girl Who Really Needs Some Help
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reader, mooh  +, writes (28 May 2012):
Friend #2 needs to get over it because: Friend #1 and the guy are officially together (and the guy has apparently made it clear to Friend #2 he doesnt like her). She is just creating drama (and you are getting sucked into it to the point that maybe one of them asks you to take sides one day).
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere's no mending their friendship.. They didn't like each other when I met them.
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reader, Fredthefrog  +, writes (24 May 2012):
Ok well first you've gotta try and make your two friends like each other even though they are fighting over a boy!!!! Tell them that a boy should never come between a friend because boys are nice but can be a pain in the butt!! Also tell friend #2 that if the boy doesn't want anything to do with her then he isn't worth worrying about! Sometime you have just got to move on and find someone better!!!!
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