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writes:How do you get over someone who you have never been with? I need help desperately, as i feel happy whenever this person is around, yet i have never been with them, and i know i never will. Please help. x Reply to this Question
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reader, IamJess +, writes (11 July 2012):
 Its harder to forget someone you never have been with because your always wondering what it will be like, I do get that.
But if you know your never going to be together, like 100% never going to happen, then its time to move on, there's plently of people out there, everyone does have a soulmate, its whether they're going to go out there and find them, and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
You'll figure it out, but it takes time.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 I will tell you a little story. When I was in high school, I was desperately in love with my 10th grade English teacher. He was smart, he travelled a lot, he was handsome, and I looked forward to being in his class every single day. I thought about him at night and on the weekends. He was a great fantasy for me, and I had a lot of fun thinking about him, but he was a lot older and married. I loved being around him too. He made me feel like the most important person in the world, although, I know he treated everyone this way...it wasn't just me. Since then, I have met other men I have liked, men who I have been with, and even one I have fallen in love with. I am telling you this story to show that even though you may be desperate to be with this unattainable person, there will be other people out there for you. Enjoy fantasizing about this person and enjoy the time you get to be near him/her. Just don't get too desperate since you have an entire lifetime ahead of you.
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reader, CrystalMaze +, writes (11 July 2012):
Try to forget about them. Take up a hobby or something. I know it is difficult but at your age crushes are mainly hormonal. Hell, you probably won't even know their name in 15 years. If you don't mind me asking, how do you know you will never be with them?
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reader, Fredthefrog +, writes (10 July 2012):
Well...... This will sound harsh but there are plenty more fish in the sea so go find yourself someone better looking and just generally nicer to fancy and maybe one day you might get a chance with someone else! Also how do you know that you don't have a chance with the person you like....?? Everyone has a chance youve just gotta impress them so strut your sexy stuff!!!
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