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Im 27, im single, im an aquarius :)

i finally creating some direction in my life since i feel that most of my awful decisions in life have been due to no real goals. Im a jack of all trades but a master of none :(. i am overall an easy going, down to earth, caring chick. i attract some real losers and men who try to control me and i am finally coming out of this pattern so i can really begin to live..life is too short and im not getting any younger. after some recent bad times..im giving time to myself, i plan to relax, travel europe this june with my brother for 3 wks then begin a course this fall to become a teacher.

i dont like authority, or anyone telling me what to do. its not what you want me to do..its how you tell me to do it that may make me tick.

Should I just call the whole thing off or wait even if it hurts so much?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 16 months. I've had huge trust issues from an ex who cheated on me multiple times, was a drug abuser, self-mutilator, and stole from me and my parents. My ex's friends were all female, and I never ...

A.   4 March 2008: your insecurities is what is going to ruin your relationship. TRUST ME, my recent ex bf had insecurity issues and we would argue every other day. I had to keep molding myself and making sacrifices to make him happy..like your bf does for you..but, ... (read in full...)

Where to look for a relationship? I'm 27 and never dated.

Q.   Where is a good place to look for a relationship? I'm 27, soon to be 28, and have never dated. I am interested in trying now, but I don't know where to look or even what to do if I do find someone. ...

A.   29 February 2008: Is there a reason why you havent dated yet? Were you focused on your work or studies? It depends on what you like to do in order to find someone. You may want to try match.com or go out into social scene's where you like to be and start making ... (read in full...)

Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ex-boyfriend?...

Q.   I want to reconnect with an ex I haven't spoken to in 2 years. There's no bad blood between us. We spoke after the break-up a few times on good terms until we both graduated. Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ...

A.   29 February 2008: sure why not, especially if i want involved with anyone at the time..its always nice to rekindle spirits ... (read in full...)

Lover/friendship crisis!!!!!!

Q.   I've been single for a while and the past boyfriends I had treated me like dirt but now I'm falling for an ex from 4 years ago but the thing is he has a girlfriend and she's a friend of mine too! I really like him but I don't want to ruin their ...

A.   28 February 2008: Dont be the "other woman"..you deserve someones undivided attention and if hes going to cheat on his gf with you then he will cheat on you too! i see that you are young but why didnt it work out 4years ago? dont be the reason for them to break up... (read in full...)

Which is usually the best pillar for a decision, ration or sentiments?

Q.   I made a big decision after fighting my head with my heart for some time. I chose to go with what my head was telling me after months of questioning what I should do. The actual day of my decision I had felt the strongest, that what I chose was the ...

A.   27 February 2008: thank you soo much for sharing your story..it has been recent i suppose and my body is still going through changes plus at the moment im even coming down with a cold to top it all off..but i appreciate your response..i know what you are saying is ... (read in full...)

Which is usually the best pillar for a decision, ration or sentiments?

Q.   I made a big decision after fighting my head with my heart for some time. I chose to go with what my head was telling me after months of questioning what I should do. The actual day of my decision I had felt the strongest, that what I chose was the ...

A.   26 February 2008: Thank you all for your wonderful, thought out responses. I feel that what i decided was right but now that time has settled in (a little over a week) Im getting mixed emotions about the what if's because my heart is becoming weak. when i ... (read in full...)

Is there any man out there that's decent and right for me?

Q.   I have dated men for years to realize that they aren't right for me. I see their flaws and see past them and I "deal with it".. in hopes that it may be forever. I am a caucasion Italian female. I'm trying to figure out a pattern but then even wh...

A.   24 February 2008: danielepew..i am open-minded and i appreciate your response. i feel that i may give to much of myself to these guys. they tend to have less than I and usually a not so great family and I want them to feel loved. Im a creative person..i enjoy ma... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I should involve seriously in coming dates as I feel emotionally drained due to my past relationships.

Q.   i have dated men for years to realize that they aren't right for me. i see their flaws and see past them and i "deal with it"..in hopes that it may be forever. i am a Caucasian Italian female. i'm trying to figure out a pattern but then even wh...

A.   23 February 2008: my father is a tough guy. abusive towards my mom and emotionally abusive towards me. till this day when he tries to be nice it doesnt come out right. he has a strong character..think heavy italian accent from NY..my parents divorced and my last ... (read in full...)

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