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I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's baby, but I'm afraid to leave him because of his anger issues.

Q.   I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. he has lived with me and my family for most of the time we have been together. I have just found out I am Pregnant and things between us are getting worse. He treats my mother ...

A.   19 September 2008: You obviously don't love him, which makes it eaiser for you... tell him the truth... raising a child that young is going to be hard enough, you don't want an angery boyfriend to make it even harder... if you mother wants him out and you want him... (read in full...)

I am feeling like a FOOL!

Q.   A long distance relationship for the past 8 months; how foolish! I believed and hoped; yes, I wanted to believe that all will be well and that he will come to visit as promised and arranged for the last month. However, like so many times the ...

A.   9 September 2008: be thankful that you realize what is happening and you are getting out of it... learn to laugh at your self and above all, you know that you need to move on... now just do it.... (read in full...)

I'm worried about our future sex life, my penis and her vagina are not a great fit!

Q.   My girlfriend states she is very satisfied with our sex life, and I am too, but I am worried about the future as we are considering a long-term relationship. I have a modest penis, nothing I'm ashamed of but definitely on the smaller end of normal, ...

A.   9 September 2008: your penis size, though important, is not the only part of a sex life. Many girls can't orgasm from penetration alone anyways... try suplementing with a vibrator, oral, something... Personally I think penetration is good, but not nearly the only ... (read in full...)

I am feeling like a FOOL!

Q.   A long distance relationship for the past 8 months; how foolish! I believed and hoped; yes, I wanted to believe that all will be well and that he will come to visit as promised and arranged for the last month. However, like so many times the ...

A.   9 September 2008: be glad that it happined over a few months and not a few years... learn to laugh at your self... and be thankful... thankfull that you learned and you didn't do something even more foolish like move in with him and then find out that he was a jerk. ... (read in full...)

We carry on as if we were a couple, but we're not! And now one of my friends is making a move...

Q.   hi, im a 16 year old male with relationship problems! i have this realy close friend of mine, she and i have been friends for over 5 years . we tell eachother everything! we carry on as if we are a couple , but we not! i realy like her, but i'm ...

A.   6 August 2008: At 16 the girl probably doesn't even know what she wants. And if you are as close as you two seem to be then she is probably going to come crying to you when this relationship with your friend is over... good and bad... If she likes you that is ... (read in full...)

It's been two years and my boyfriend won't tell me where he's living!

Q.   My bf wont tell me where hes moved to recently?, we have short brakes where he tells me he neads to be sucsefull and he cant do that while living or comitting to me. he tells me hes got a lot of work on, turns off his phone. Then i tell him where ...

A.   6 August 2008: Sorry girl, i agree with pashanoodle... It sounds to me like the relationship isn't very stable to begin with. I know this is going to be hard but try to look at it from an outsiders perspective. If a relationship isn't going well in the first two ... (read in full...)

I had unprotected sex with her, cheated on her... now she's pregnant and wants money for an abortion!

Q.   i was talking to this girl for about a month. she REALY liked me. and i was really into her too. we had sex a few times and we didnt use a condom one time. i ended up cheating on her with another girl. and the girl i was talking to found out. than ...

A.   5 August 2008: well, it was a mistake, and there are ramifications, I am not judging you or her, but taking responsibility means there are a few things you should do. First, find out if she is really pregnant. Not that I am doubting, just that some people lie,... (read in full...)

Could she be pregnant?? I didn't orgasm inside her...I'm really scared for her...

Q.   hey im in such an emotional nd very scary time my gf nd i were havin oral sex we den kinda had sex however i was only in her three time i did not örgasm inside her so i dnt know whats goin on shes very late in her period can she be pregnant ...

A.   5 August 2008: Truth be told, yes, there is a possibility that she could be pregnant. fortunately for you it is unlikely. Some times stress can make a girl miss a period. if she is worried about the possibility of being pregnant then she is probably late from... (read in full...)

I can't tell my parents I'm pregnant, what am I going to do??

Q.   Me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and i think i might be pregnant, and seeing as i come from a Catholic family i cannot tell my parents. What should i do? Love SOS...

A.   30 July 2008: i do agree that you will have to tell them eventually, but you said you "think you might be" pregnant... Take a test, either at home or go to a free clinic that will let you stay anonomous... if you are going to tell them be absolutely sure you ... (read in full...)

My man is too depressed to have sex.

Q.   I am in a sexless relationship. It's a long, painful story and if I could recount all the reasons why my man is depressed and feeling powerless, you would understand why I'm being so long suffering. He refuses counselling and gets upset if *I* try ...

A.   30 July 2008: I am sure you have allready tried every trick in the book to get him in to counciling. I know this is different but it is still somthing to consider. A few years a go my father became very depressed and spent most of his time alone, doing ... (read in full...)

Everything is happening at once and I'm stressed and confused. How do I prioritise?

Q.   ok i need help! im in yr 12 and doing my last 10 weeks of schooling before my final exams. i am completely stressed out already because in this final year everything happens!!..the ball, u go out more and experience more, u get ur licence, u get a...

A.   30 July 2008: You are young and you still have the whole world ahead of you... Generally when things get to chaotic for me I make a list... start with everything that has to be done today, once that is checked off, go to tommorow... don't worry about getting ... (read in full...)

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